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Oh wow, POETRY??? *swoon* You are one lucky girl!! But then again, so is he. It's great to hear couples who have been together a long time who are still in love. Hubby and I always hold hands when we go out, and no matter who is standing around, when we are on the phone he always tells me he loves me and blows me little kisses. :thumbup:

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Hubby and I always hold hands when we go out, and no matter who is standing around, when we are on the phone he always tells me he loves me and blows me little kisses. :thumbup:

Okay, I know you are my sister-from-another-mother, but is your DH my DH's brother-from-another-mother?

He's the exact same way - always says he loves me (in a cute little sing-song voice "I love you baaaaack") and blows me kisses as well, and he's a hand-holder too!

I feel so blessed, and I'm glad you found a good one, too, my sister!:thumbup:

Added after posting: A belt that fits is a great addition to your bandster toolbox...I just had lunch, and not only is my band telling me I've eaten enough, the belt on my pants is agreeing!

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Okay, I know you are my sister-from-another-mother, but is your DH my DH's brother-from-another-mother?

He's the exact same way - always says he loves me (in a cute little sing-song voice "I love you baaaaack") and blows me kisses as well, and he's a hand-holder too!

I feel so blessed, and I'm glad you found a good one, too, my sister!:thumbup:

Well, he does have his times like all men -- and unlike we goddesses who are beyond beyond perfect... :blushing:

Added after posting: A belt that fits is a great addition to your bandster toolbox...I just had lunch, and not only is my band telling me I've eaten enough, the belt on my pants is agreeing!

Belt? Whassat? :thumbup:

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Ok, you two have great husbands. I can only hope that when DH grows up, that he is as sweet as your DHs are. I am jealous!

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Well, grrls, I am lucky too, since my man has done all my nursing and running me to and from the hospital and cleaning during my cancer and he doesn't want my inheritance from my mum which was my original plan (I figured that he really earned it since living with me ain't no piece of cake!!!) but wants me to give it to my blood which would be my 2 nieces and my nephew. We tell each other thank you and that we love each other all the time and he buys me cut flowers. This is so important in Canada where the winters are so so long.

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Ok, you two have great husbands. I can only hope that when DH grows up, that he is as sweet as your DHs are. I am jealous!

Slim, it has taken nearly 19 years of marriage and over 30 years we've known each other for him to get to this point...

Good things are worth waiting for, and a good man is one that's TRAINABLE! :thumbup::thumbup::blushing:

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MIne is 9 years younger than I am. Get 'em young and treat 'em r-o-u-g-h is what I like to joke but the truth is that I had to f88k a lot of toads before I found that special frog.

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Mine is super special and makes me all warm and fuzzy just thinking about it!

PJTP~ It's Friday I am tired... I am going out to dinner with a girl friend of mine and going to have libation and then seduce my husband.. Pretty sure I won't have to try though :scared2:

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Mine is super special and makes me all warm and fuzzy just thinking about it!

PJTP~ It's Friday I am tired... I am going out to dinner with a girl friend of mine and going to have libation and then seduce my husband.. Pretty sure I won't have to try though :crying:

Not knockin' ya at all, but you're still in that early stage. It SHOULD be all warm and fuzzy. Not everybody is in that place after many years together, and it's nice when we are. :scared2:

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haha well 10 years feels like a really long time to me

Have y'all been together that long, or are you just looking toward the future?

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We have been together that long and known each other much longer. We just finally decided to get married this year lol

We are considering having another baby so we wanted to make it 'official'

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We have been together that long and known each other much longer. We just finally decided to get married this year lol

We are considering having another baby so we wanted to make it 'official'

AWWW, that is wonderful and yes, it IS a long time! Heck, that's almost forever in marriage years!

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I just went smiting Battygreen on the octuplets corner. God, but she is hateful!!!

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