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Hey slim sorry your having a tough time.I can relate to the relatioship problems ..I sent a sexy pic cell phone to my bf bra and panties I got a text back that said stop acting trashy..jerk. I'm proud of all the work I did to feel comfortable enough to do that and he shoots me down everytime.

me thinks you sent that pic to the wrong person :rolleyes:

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Umm FYI

When heating little butter packets in the microwave to soften them remove little foil tops first. Even if it is only going in for 3 seconds.

ROFL!! Yeah... I've done that before.

Plain... especially for you. :rolleyes:

Thank you gone!

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PJTP...I'm playing with the multi-quote feature!

I agree Diva....awesome avitar!!!

I totally agree, Diva - your avatar is just too cute!

Plain, are you auditioning for the Brokeback Mountain sequal.....Reach Around Ridge?????

ROFLMBAO - Rolling On the Floor Laughing My Big A** Off

That was just perfect...:tt2::lol::)

My niece had her kids taken away including a new baby she had on Monday. I am going to court tomorrow and will find out exactly how abusive she was to her older kids. The sad part is she has really good kids.

How terrible...I wish the kids all the best - hopefully they will all be okay and your niece can get some help!

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I love the laughing smiley!

He isn't happy, what, with YOU??? Please tell me that's not it or I swear, I WILL have to come over there and kick his mama's boy ass into next week. :rolleyes:

Beth, let me know when you're rollin' out - I'll be there with my sh*tkickers on and I'll help you stomp a mudhole in that boy's ass!!!

I can relate to the relatioship problems ..I sent a sexy pic cell phone to my bf bra and panties I got a text back that said stop acting trashy..jerk. I'm proud of all the work I did to feel comfortable enough to do that and he shoots me down everytime.

SMS - would it be out of the question to send him a text telling him to shut the f*ck up and the next time he wants to see you like that to wait until he** freezes over? I'm just sayin'...:lol:

Totally nasty comment alert - I bet pilot boy would appreciate the pics, SMS :)

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Snt---while DH and I do not have the issues you do with the MIL situation, and we DO have one anothers backs most of the time, even in family situations.....it is not just your DH.

There is a fine line for most of us--where WE can say absolutely anything mean or hateful about those we love, but no one else can. Be it your spouse to your family....or your family to your spouse.

I am NOT defending him. Just saying that it is a normal response. I am sure he knows it is different with his Mom, but he wants it to be the way he imagines it! I was that way when I was in a bad marriage, I so wanted it to be different, everyone around me was trash talking him to me I thought, and now in hindsight, they were just being honest, and trying to help me, but I so wanted it to be different, in my ears all I heard was them trash talking. It wasn't really the end of the marriage I was mourning, it was the death of my dreams of what the marriage would be.

So if Mom just moved in, it may take him awhile, to recognize that what he had hoped would happen when she moved near, is not happening that way at all.

I would continue to be honest and stand my ground, I am only saying that it isn't really that he is choosing her and her ways, or choosing to be treated like crap. He is hoping with all his heart things will change!

It is like the puppy that comes up and licks the hand of the idiot who just kicked him, as opposed to biting it----he is just wanting the love that she has not given him in the proper manner.

You have.....so he is not trying to win you over--he is trying to win her over.

At least that is how I ended up seeing it with my family. I was not turning my back on them. They loved me, I was working my ass off to make HIM love me the way I wanted him to. Well that was never gonna happen. And in the end I am glad it didn't---I moved on and ended up in a much better place. But it was, what it was, at the time.

My heart goes out to both of you!

Kat

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Plain, are you auditioning for the Brokeback Mountain sequal.....Reach Around Ridge?????

I feel lost when LBT goes down....but amazingly all my work is done at the end of the day....imagine!!

Zing!

When LBT doesn't want me, FB is always willing.

My niece had her kids taken away including a new baby she had on Monday. I am going to court tomorrow and will find out exactly how abusive she was to her older kids. The sad part is she has really good kids.

So sorry about that. Any possibility you will be able take in the kids?

I sent a sexy pic cell phone to my bf bra and panties I got a text back that said stop acting trashy..jerk. I'm proud of all the work I did to feel comfortable enough to do that and he shoots me down everytime.
me thinks you sent that pic to the wrong person :lol:

me thinks she has the wrong man for a bf

Plain... especially for you. :rolleyes:

OMG! I love it!

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PJTP: Some of these soap opera divas are just too damned perfect looking to be people! You think they are animes?

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When LBT doesn't want me, FB is always willing.

hurrying typing before i get locked out again.

PJTP: Some of these soap opera divas are just too damned perfect looking to be people! You think they are animes?

sorta ashamed but not so much - i'm STILL addicted to the young & the restless all these yrs later. tivo brought us back together....LOL

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Yeah pilot boy would love the pics but its gotten a little weird at work with him staring at me.. We have to work together tonight..

Okay - forget what I said earlier...hopefully Pilot Boy will stay on his side of the office, so to speak and get un-weirded...

You definately deserve better, girlfriend...and I believe you're going to find it

*sending positive vibes, energy and thoughts your way*:(

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I am just way to lazy to personalize this post right now.

I am sorry but I am always too lazy. I do read them all though, and feel empathy. I just spend entirely too much time on LBT.

Somebody tell me how a grown woman can sit naked on her 13 yr old son's face and fart and think this is normal behavior?

No, I will not be taking the kids, but I am sure I will be helping out a great deal with their care.

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I am sorry but I am always too lazy. I do read them all though, and feel empathy. I just spend entirely too much time on LBT.

Me, too! I read and want to comment, but by the time I'm caught up, the threads 10 more pages and the idea is gone and no sense going back to it.

Somebody tell me how a grown woman can sit naked on her 13 yr old son's face and fart and think this is normal behavior?

Okay, missed that one...where was that?

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