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Newbie here looking for fellow NC sleevers whether you are pre-op or post- op to start a support group... I am currently going through the process to become approved

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Congrats and I wish you the best as well as a speedy recovery I look fwd to hearing about it

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Sleeved Oct 5th at Rex in Raleigh NC

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I had my surgery on September 27, 2017 everything was fine the first couple of days but I recently noticed that I have been feeling anxious and having some buyers remorse I don’t know why but I feel like something is wrong even though I know that there is nothing wrong? I can’t explain the feeling other than some extreme depression has anybody else experienced this?

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Good morning I haven't had my surgery yet. However; from what I have been reading and watching on YouTube the buyer's remorse and depression is normal. As far as feeling like something is wrong you should reach out to your doctor to be on the safe side. It's a young lady on YouTube that I watched last night you should go and watch her video and ask her some questions as well. She is very down to earth and replies. Here is the link

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I had my surgery on September 27, 2017 everything was fine the first couple of days but I recently noticed that I have been feeling anxious and having some buyers remorse I don’t know why but I feel like something is wrong even though I know that there is nothing wrong? I can’t explain the feeling other than some extreme depression has anybody else experienced this?

Good morning I haven't had my surgery yet. However; from what I have been reading and watching on YouTube the buyer's remorse and depression is normal. As far as feeling like something is wrong you should reach out to your doctor to be on the safe side. It's a young lady on YouTube that I watched last night you should go and watch her video and ask her some questions as well. She is very down to earth and replies. When I replied to your message I didn't do it directly do it just posted on the thread. The video I am referring to is on the thread. I pray you are in better spirits


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Hi I live in Durham and prayfully I will be scheduled in December. I'm thankful for this group and I'm glad that you searched out for North Carolina cuz it can be a lonely ride. I have an awesome support system. But I am feeling like anxious just a little bit.

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Hi I live in Durham and prayfully I will be scheduled in December. I'm thankful for this group and I'm glad that you searched out for North Carolina cuz it can be a lonely ride. I have an awesome support system. But I am feeling like anxious just a little bit.

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Hey hun!!! Girl tell me about.... Prayfully I will be getting sleeved in December as well.... I am,having my psych eval November 13th and I meet with the nurse practitioner on the 14th prayfully she will submit my info to the insurance company. I meet with the surgeon on the 20th which is when I will get my surgery date[emoji120] [emoji120] [emoji120] [emoji120]..... Do you have Facebook? ?

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I had my surgery on September 27, 2017 everything was fine the first couple of days but I recently noticed that I have been feeling anxious and having some buyers remorse I don’t know why but I feel like something is wrong even though I know that there is nothing wrong? I can’t explain the feeling other than some extreme depression has anybody else experienced this?

How have you been feeling?

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On 10/11/2017 at 10:16 PM, Mercedes8989 said:

I had my surgery on September 27, 2017 everything was fine the first couple of days but I recently noticed that I have been feeling anxious and having some buyers remorse I don’t know why but I feel like something is wrong even though I know that there is nothing wrong? I can’t explain the feeling other than some extreme depression has anybody else experienced this?

@Mercedes8989I haven't had my surgery yet, but it's just a few days away. I just wanted to say I hope you're feeling better now! I feel like this a lot of the time even now, pre-surgery, but I know I just have terrible anxiety especially about medical stuff. I'm definitely a hypochondriac. I sincerely hope everything is fine now and it's all going well for you.

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Awesome maybe we can be sleeve twins...yes Tamica Africa Bagley

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That would be awesome!!!!..... Ok I am going to send you a friend request and add you to this group called black girls get sleeved too

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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