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I finally took the step to get the gastric sleeve. I am 5 days post op and having a hard time drinking my Protein Shakes. I didn't expect so much pain. I have already lost 12lbs in 5 days. Is this too much? I have a cousin and uncle who had bypass over 15 yrs ago so it is hard to compare stories. I have struggled my whole life with weight and am disgusted with myself....but now feel regret. Any ideas to help me gain more strength to get through these first several weeks?

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I am just beginning my process to be sleeved but I have 2 Special people in my life that have had the VSG already. From what I've researched and from what my friends say everyone regrets it at 1st. It's tough the 1st week but from observation I see it gets better.

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Thank you for the response. I had such a better picture of post op in my mind. I know and hope it will get better. Where are you in the process?

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I'm proud of you and understand what you are going through. I am 12 days post op...

Some days are good...and some days you have painful hiccups (literally). Stick to the people who support you and lift you up. Discard the ones that bring you down😎

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The regret is kinda normal, I think. I went through 6 months of conditioning myself for this. Learning HOW I would have to eat after, and I thought I was ready.

Then after surgery, I was miserable. I had not been ready for how I felt (pain) or how I had to drink... tiny little.medicine cup sips... and it STILL affects getting in all my water...

But, you will be fine. And believe me, you WON'T regret this. Once you start getting used to it, it gets easier. It is worth it



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1 hour ago, Nursepayne said:

Thank you for the response. I had such a better picture of post op in my mind. I know and hope it will get better. Where are you in the process?

So I am in the very beginning. I just got a referral from my doctor. I have nutrition class tomorrow and my intro to bariatric surgery on the 1st. I also need to get a sleep study for sleep apnea. I am going through Kaiser and it is covered by my insurance. Hopefully it goes smoothly.

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Nursepaye
I'm so sorry things have been rough for you . I was sleeved on 3/22/17. And I too was miserable 5 days out. I will be at 6 weeks in 2 days and I am now starting to feel great. Please stay hydrated drinking Water, you will feel exhausted until you can get in more food , so rest as much as possible . Remember your sleeve is still swollen and you have to baby it until the swelling goes down. My doctors told me that takes at least 6 weeks . I think for me that was true. So sip cold water. Drink your Protein little at a time, take your Vitamins and don't hesitate to call your Doctor if you really feel bad... but I want you to know it does get better


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Thank you for the encouragement. I'm slowly starting to get better. I'm still taking it slow, but going to try to go back to work on Monday. I'll be 3 weeks post op. Water has been the hardest...but drinking more each day.

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I had so much pain and regret right after surgery. I'm only two weeks out now, and everything is much better. Hang in there!


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This is all normal I'm 7 weeks out today and still battle the occasional wth did I do? BUT I just remember that the boils , out of breath feeling & borderline type 2 diabetes just WAS not healthy. Thinga will get better :)

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      1. Selina333

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    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. LeighaTR

        I hope your surgery on Wednesday goes well. You will be able to do all sorts of new things as you find your new normal after surgery. I don't know this from experience yet, but I am seeing a lot of positive things from people who have had it done. Best of luck!

    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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      Officially here for a long time, not just a good time💪
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