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Enjoy that libido and leave your heels on, you won't be focusing as much on your body knowing your rocking some sexy shoes!!

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From a guys Perspective

If a guy makes advances toward you then obviously you have Characteristics that he likes. Don't let your self-conscious thoughts stop you from being intimate. I have found that women that have been Bigger put a lot more effort into pleasing their partner than women that don't have to work as hard to attract a man. Honestly one of the few turn offs for me in the Bedroom is a woman that wont let her self go and enjoy the moment and instead is constantly wondering if i find her attractive. We all have body issues whenever I was in the Marines at 162lbs I still thought I was fat. I am going to give you the Ultimate thing to remember "Fake It Till You Make It" well don't Fake everything lol!!!

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From a male perspective, when the lights off, everything is hot and horny and about to burst. We (us men) don't care, so my advice to you. As long as you feel good about yourself nothing else matters.

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It’s a mindset. You can lose all the weight you want and not feel confident. Especially when the weight loss is so quick, your mind doesn’t catch up as fast. I did get my breast fixed but no ticks or lifts. I still have insecurities.

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Lucky guys!!!! My wife doesn't want to have sex she complains that it hurts now. I don't understand why? Has anyone had this problem? Her gyn checked her out and can't find anything wrong. It just doesn't make any sense. Hopefully I can get some answers. She said it feels like if you have a bruise on your body and you are constantly hitting is the feeling she is having while we're having sex . Anyobe have answers?
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My vagina kept spasming a couple months ago. It weekly I for about a month. I asked Google went and a lot of the answers were something called vagemitisitis or something similar. If you Google what I did you will probably find the correct word. Women with it have pain during penetration. There are things you can do like massaging and stretching it. I think sometimes it ends up being a looking term thing. Look it up, show her, then she should see a Dr because there are things they can do to help.

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I understand you so much! Like before being at 360 lb I was so confident for some reason. I wouldn't really care taking my clothes off and all that. But now, just 2 months after the surgery and having lost 60 lb since I started I feel so embarrassed, idk. It's just hard.. And yes, you still need some sugar! So I would just don't think too much about it and just enjoy

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