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Guest ZenGarden

Laura,

You look AMAZING!!! May I ask how much exercise you do, what you eat, and how filled your band is??

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I am happily married, so am definitely not looking! But, I agree with Laura, you need to spill the Beans. You can't tease us and then leave us hanging! :omg:

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I guess I could elaborate.

I am happily married and not looking, but I am meeting great people here and I WISH I lived closer to a lot of them, because I think we would be great friends in real life.

Now, that being said.. you really must let us know who you met, inquiring minds NEED to know! :rolleyes:

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I would love to meet people in my area even just to be friends and to talk and go out, I am a single mother of 3 and I live in Lakewood California.

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I am not banded as of yet and single. But would think it might be easier to date someone who is banded. As they would be more understanding.

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LOL, I think this is a funny question.

No, I have never met anyone from LBT and dated them. (I am married anyway).

But, I have met a couple guys on the internet and dated them before. This was about 10 years ago.

Good luck with your LBT love!:eyebrows:

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If anyone lives in the Phoenix, Arizona area I know a great single guy that needs a lady friend. He is 31 years old, works for a reputable firm, is tall, handsome and is an all around nice guy. He just relocated from North Carolina last December. He loves to golf, go to concerts, and sports events, travel, loves dogs, cooks and does dishes, does his own laundry, is intelligent, comes from a well educated and kind family from the East Coast and would be a wonderful catch for someone just as nice. He wants to find a nice caring lady and wants to have children some day. As you probably guessed he is my son so I guess I am a little biased. So if you have any interest al all you can pm me and ----------oh, he is very tall 6"4" and weighs about 230 lbs., athletic build.

p.s. he would kill me if he knew I was doing this

Thanks,

shelli:ranger:

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Dang...wish I lived in Phoenix....LOL

It'd be awesome to date a fellow bandster...exactly what Joyce said...they'd know exactly what we're going through!

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Shelli, he sounds great wish I was 10 years younger.

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