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I'm about 7 months out and 81 pounds down. It has been the hardest journey I've ever been on getting here. Whoever thinks that this is the easy way out is crazy. I don't know what to do at this point. I just want to at least lose 3 pounds to get the 100s before my husband gets home from his deployment. We haven't seen each other for months. I don't have time to go to the gym since I'm a single mother of 2 children with a full time job and going to school full time at night online. I'm so stressed I find myself eating. But I'm still staying within my calories. I never go on the 900. Why aren't I losing weight? I've been at a stand still for 3 weeks!

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Stalls are a normal, natural, and necessary part of the process of losing weight. If you intend to lose a significant amount of weight you will experience periodic stalls.

That said, it seems like your calories are really low. Your calories should be relative to your Protein target. You don't even mention your Protein. What is your protein target? Are you getting at least that much protein every day? Are you getting at least 64 oz of Fluid a day?

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Around 6-8 months out, it seems our bodies start adjusting to the calorie deficit and things seem to screech to a halt for a lot of people. I honestly think that's where they get the statistics of "60% of excess weight loss is average with surgery". That's about what we kind of automatically lose without really "trying". After that, it's time to shake things up a bit by upping your Protein and calories to shock your body into losing again. It's also really important to stay as strict as you can about not letting too much sugar and simple carbs back into your diet. Protein, veggies, good fats, nuts, and maybe some low sugar fruits like berries. No processed stuff. Lots of Water. And although you say you don't have time to exercise, find a way to move more, whether it be taking the kids out for a stroll, parking further away from work or school, or taking the stairs as opposed to the elevator every chance you get.

Your body is complacent now. Time to shake things up to get to your desired goal.

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I'm like 8-9 months out of surgery and i have hit the biggest stalls i cant go under 240 after losing 120 pounds or so i used to weight 362 I'm at 241-244 and i just can't seem for like a 6 weeks now to get over this stall, usually my stalls would be 1 week or 2 and id randomly lose like 4 pounds all of a sudden but now nothing. I think my problem is not enough Protein and calorie intake

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A great thing my surgeon told me is that the best exercise I could do is use an elliptical, I don't have surgery till Oct 25 but I have a lapband that will be revised to sleeve. I found one where I live on letgo app for $35 hope that helps. Then I can exercise at home while kids watch tv or something.

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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