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Several years ago I had a knee reconstructed, and learned that getting things done in advance around the house makes a big difference. I needed to make sure my bedroom was de-cluttered and I had a clear path to the bathroom, that I had a mobile workstation set up so I could use my laptop comfortably wherever I was, that the iceman machine for my knee was operational, that we had food fixed up and frozen for quick heating, that I had plenty of drinks and Snacks available in the bedroom, TV/Netflix/DVD player in the bedroom, etc. Made a world of difference in my recovery.

I am expecting this recovery to be much shorter (the knee was 3 weeks before I could work from home again, and 8 weeks before I could bear weight on the leg) and certainly food won't be the same kind of issue. Obviously, getting the house as clean as possible, pathways de-cluttered and everything like that will help a lot. What other things did you do to prepare ahead of time, or wish you had done? I've got a little over 3 weeks (surgery date set for Aug 17).

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sounds like you are ON it!

make sure there's plenty of things like TP and dishdetergent in the house. :D my goal was to not have to go to the store at all for a couple of weeks and just focus on fluids/protein.

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sounds like you are ON it!

make sure there's plenty of things like TP and dishdetergent in the house. :D my goal was to not have to go to the store at all for a couple of weeks and just focus on fluids/protein.

I'm super lucky. I have a devoted hubby who will move heaven and earth to make me happy/comfortable, and a college aged kid who will generally run errands for me if I buy her a Starbucks. :) With my auto-immune, I run out of steam really quickly already, so grocery stores are hell for me. The family prefers that I spend quality time with them with the energy I have, as opposed to running errands, so they tend to take care of it for me. But I have to budget my energy carefully, so anything I need to have done before the surgery, I need to get started on. :D

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If you have a recliner, you may end up sleeping in it, so make sure it is clean and in a place you can sleep comfortably. If you don't have a recliner, consider renting one. I wish I had! If no recliner, then consider a body pillow or something like that.

I was required to have a functioning home blood pressure monitor and thermometer. I also made lots of use of a heating pad.

Every time you lift something 10 lbs or more (bags of kitty litter, small children, large cats, etc.) remember you won't be able to do that for a while after surgery and come up with an alternate means of accomplishing whatever you need to do.

Don't put too much stuff in your bedroom -- the key to a quick recovery is walking and moving as much as possible. If you are picturing yourself propped up in bed with a remote control and a book, re-think. You should be as up and active as you can and only in your bed (or recliner) to nap when you need to.

Good luck!

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@@Bufflehead - all very good points. I was all but bedbound for a couple of weeks after the knee surgery, but need to see this as completely different, as activity is necessary. :) I have a good BP cuff and thermometer, as well as an awesome heating pad, too. :D Thanks!

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