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Definitely don't send a video. Try to stay busy and move forward on your own.

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Honestly if someone can't make time for you within a month it's because he doesn't care enough too. Your better than that you can find someone who has time to support you.

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Thank you everyone for your support I'm letting go I know I deserve better, but wow it's so hard and painful I've cried all weekend and I've been asking myself what's wrong with me ? I'm still hurt but I need to look to the future

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Thank you everyone for your support I'm letting go I know I deserve better, but wow it's so hard and painful I've cried all weekend and I've been asking myself what's wrong with me ? I'm still hurt but I need to look to the future

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He sounds like a tool! Nothing is wrong with you! Learn to be happy on your own. Go out - make friends - enjoy life! Being alone is better than being used by an asshole!

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there are 5 stages of grief...anger denial depression bargaining and acceptance...not necessarily in that order. you will go thru all of those and feel a rollercoaster of emotions. plus, have you ever heard of the 8 week wait?? it takes that long for a womans oxytocin levels to go down(thats what makes us "bond"). its a real thing! (can you tell i too have had my heart trampled on?? lolol)

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