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Hey @curlysue86

I know things are rough right now, but I PROMISE you, it will get better. Did you do the right thing? Of course you did. You knew what you needed, and you put in the time and effort to get to where you are. No one said it was going to be easy! Right now you're healing from a huge physical and emotional trauma, and everything feels like it's so hard and like you'll be stuck this way forever. But guess what? Soon, and sooner than you think, the weight will be falling off, your body will become perfectly healthy, and a whole new life will be unfolding faster than you can even comprehend it. I felt much like you did in the beginning, but now I'm over ten months post op and down 164 pounds since surgery. I eat healthfully almost always, but every now and then I am able to have a bite or two of an old favorite, and be satisfied. I'm still losing steadily, I'm perfectly healthy, AND the greatest thing of all - food and my obesity no longer has control over me. I have control over me! Now you do too! Hang in there, and it will get better. Remember all the reasons you did this in the first place. Take pictures, measure and record your measurements, and soon you'll forget how miserable you felt in the beginning. :)

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Thank you for your kind words.. Today, last week was my surgery and it's just been really hard. My biggest thing is feeling like I no energy. Hopefully it will get better. How long did you do the full liquid diet for? It's hard to get enough Water down and Protein.

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@@curlysue86 I believe I was on liquids for 2 weeks, then I moved to pureed food for about a month, then to soft foods. In the beginning, I drank a scoop of Protein Powder in 8-10 ounces of milk twice a day, and that alone was enough Protein. Other than that, I just sipped Water as much as I could. It really does get easier! I promise you the great things coming your way will be worth this effort and discomfort. It took me about 7 months to feel completely normal again, and now I feel FAR better than my pre-surgery normal. Feel free to friend me or message me anytime if I can help at all. Hang in there. :)

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Right after surgery it can be hard to meet your Protein and Fluid daily requirements. But just keep trying and in a few days you will get there.

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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