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Today makes 12 weeks post op. Hard to believe. As I look back, I see all the ups and downs I've had during that time.

It's easy to feel good about everything on those "high" days, but on those lows? It's really hard not to focus on anything, but the negative. I found this forum in hopes of helping me reach my goal, but I have taken away so much more.

I for one do not have a support system I can rely on, so I am thankful for all of you.

There are so many of you that have shown me that even though life can be pretty crappy, there is always something to be thankful for.

More importantly, a few of you have caused me to laugh, when all I wanted to do was cry. And one very kind person that through our talks, I ended up learning more about myself that I either refused to see, or just didn't want to acknowledge. If that's all I take away from this process, I will be forever grateful.

Anyway I say all that for this.....the numbers on the scale have once again stopped. I've been driving myself crazy about it cause all I could focus on was those stupid numbers.

If it wasn't for what I've learned on here "to look for the good" I totally would not have even realized I grabbed a pair of jeans 4 sizes smaller than what I've been wearing and.....THEY FIT!!!! Wasn't until I looked in the mirror at work that I saw they aren't my usual "go to's."

So, thank you to all of you that have been there as mentors, comedians, my reality at times, and more importantly friends.

Dang I look good, and this is only the beginning!!

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Damn, girl! You DO look good!

I, too have no support system at home. BP has been my support for 5 yrs now.

Some days are still dark, but those days are fewer and a wee bit brighter. I can't ask for more.

Hoping your journey remains mostly sunny with little chance of rain!

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Thank you, ladies!!

Today is one day I don't mind being surrounded by mirrors. Lol

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You look wonderful!

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Awesome!!! Congratulations!! A wonderful NSV!!! :D :D :D :D :D

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Thank you, ladies!!!

@@KristenLe

Maybe one day soon I'll get complimented on my arse instead of "you can really see it in your face".

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Today makes 12 weeks post op. Hard to believe. As I look back, I see all the ups and downs I've had during that time.

It's easy to feel good about everything on those "high" days, but on those lows? It's really hard not to focus on anything, but the negative. I found this forum in hopes of helping me reach my goal, but I have taken away so much more.

I for one do not have a support system I can rely on, so I am thankful for all of you.

There are so many of you that have shown me that even though life can be pretty crappy, there is always something to be thankful for.

More importantly, a few of you have caused me to laugh, when all I wanted to do was cry. And one very kind person that through our talks, I ended up learning more about myself that I either refused to see, or just didn't want to acknowledge. If that's all I take away from this process, I will be forever grateful.

Anyway I say all that for this.....the numbers on the scale have once again stopped. I've been driving myself crazy about it cause all I could focus on was those stupid numbers.

If it wasn't for what I've learned on here "to look for the good" I totally would not have even realized I grabbed a pair of jeans 4 sizes smaller than what I've been wearing and.....THEY FIT!!!! Wasn't until I looked in the mirror at work that I saw they aren't my usual "go to's."

So, thank you to all of you that have been there as mentors, comedians, my reality at times, and more importantly friends.

Dang I look good, and this is only the beginning!!

Sent from my iPhone using the BariatricPal App

Go girl!!! Rocking then jeans!

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

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