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Hi there, I'm Nikki from Sydney AUS and I have my surgery booked for Aug 22nd. I am excited but very apprehensive. Look forward to chatting with you and sharing experiences - I need all the support I can get. One question though. Is it normal to have second thoughts as your surgery date approaches? I'm hoping it's just last minute nerves!!!

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Hi there,

I'm new myself and being banded on August 23rd, I think the liquid diet I am on gives me a good reason to have second thoughts. THis approach to weight loss is not an easy way out. But for me it is the only way out. I have been on too many diets to count and have lost but not maintained. I think everytime you make a major life decision, there will be second thoughts and I am sure after the surgery we will have rough days when we wish we could eat the world. But nothing worth having is ever easy. Remember there is gold at the end of our rainbow!!!!

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Hello! A BIG welcome to LBT form a fellow Aussie (Brisbane, QLD)

It is totally normal to second guess yourself closer to the big day. Its a massive life change, and I think, to be expected.

Best of luck!

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Hello Nikki : ) I can promise you having second thoughts is normal. I remember the few days before my surgery ( july 26th) I would stand in front of the mirror and stare at myself from the side in the mirror..I would think to myself..I don't look THAT fat, do I really need this ? At 250 pounds I needed it!LOL..Surgery was a breeze for me, I did not have any gas pains,,and the toots I got from the gas was nothing. Just remember to walk alot after surgery, it hurts some but well worth it as far as a quick recovery. I walked every hour after surgery. I made laps around the house. My birthday is one day before your surgery so I will remember the day! I will say a prayer all goes well for you! Good Luck!!

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hi everyone i was banded on 30 04 07 at perth australia weighing in at a unhealthy 145kgs my surgeon was a dr watson he fist put me on Optifast for two weeks before surgery lost 5 kgs but since lapbanded have lost a further 25kgs :blush: still get sharp shoulder pains if i eat too much plus the dreaded burps but otherwise feel great that to me is very good because i feel more confident to go out to the front door and say good morning world :) yes there is still alot more weight to lose but able to feel more positive each day is a great feeling too well thats me for now frank

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Thanks for the comments. I had my preop visit today and the surgeon was reassuring. I'm committed, nervous or not, so now I can't wait until the journey begins!

Nikki_s

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Hi Louise21, As you were banded one day prior to me, I was wondering how you are feeling now. I thought I would be fine 3 weeks out, but I have very bad wind? pain in my lower abdomen and I get occasional pain over my sternum which is very frustrating. I actually went today and they removed some air feom the band. Hopefully this will solve the problem. I know I really don't even feel like mushies at the moment.

I hope you are fairing better.

Nikki

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Hey Nikki.

I did have some pretty nasty bloating for about a week but after that is passed pretty quickly. I havent actually had my first fill yet. I get my first one 6 weeks after surgery - so in about 2 1/2 weeks.

Iv been doing pretty well so far. I was only really sick for the first week.

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

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