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I'm new! My crazy journey so far pre-op

Ashoryb

By Ashoryb, in Gastric Sleeve Surgery Forums

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Ashoryb    52

Ashoryb
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Good evening,

My name is Ashley and I'm newbie here. I never thought about joining a bariatric support group. But I do believe this will help me considering how frustrating my journey has been up until now periods I started my journey August of 2015 and I'm going to be using dr. Kim in Texas. I came into this knowing that my insurance which happens to be Cigna is very strict. I have a 53 BMI , obstructive sleep apnea, PCOS, and chronic back pain. I found the support group while I was maniacally searching 4 people experiencing the same things that I am experiencing. My insurance required three months of nutritionist verified diet psychological evaluation cardiac clearance as well as cardiac sonogram. I got all that done and submitted all my stuff to Insurance on January 14th of 2016. Cigna denied me on the 25th of January 2016 because they said I needed pulmonary clearance as well as blood work and they said they did not receive my cardiac testing clearance. Now I've gotten all that done and I just resubmitted March 1st of 2016 and now its March 11th of 2016 and I still have not heard anything. So I started searching for people who have been in the same boat as me and I found this wonderful support group and I've been reading a lot of your stories and experiences and I know by being in this group it would give me some comfort I wish I had found this when I first started. My starting BMI is 53 my starting weight is 320 and I'm so hopeful about my future. I have had a failed lap band which I got banded it in 2008 and then band removal in 2011. Gastric sleeve is a dream come true if I can ever get the approval. I know this has been long but I really wanted to introduce myself so that if anyone has a story like mine they can share with me so that I know I'm not alone.

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@@Ashoryb I hope you hear soon! You are really dedicated to your health and this process so even if they give you more hoops to jump through it will suck but you will make it and reach your goals I have no doubt!

Your hope about your future and willingness to reach out will fuel your success. Best of luck to you.

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Ashoryb    52

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@@Ashoryb I hope you hear soon! You are really dedicated to your health and this process so even if they give you more hoops to jump through it will suck but you will make it and reach your goals I have no doubt!

Your hope about your future and willingness to reach out will fuel your success. Best of luck to you.

Butterfly 23 Thank you so much for your reply. I appriciate your kind words. I'm very dedicated to this process because I have a beautiful 3 year old daughter who needs a mom thay can play with her. All I can do is sit and watch. My insurance is cigna but goes through a third party call group administrators and they are ruthless. But I can be pretty ruthless myself :)

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

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        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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