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Had my psych evaluation today

katanne

By katanne, in Gastric Sleeve Surgery Forums

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katanne
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It so much less intimidating than I thought it would be! I'd imagined jumping through hoops trying to convince someone incredulous I needed the surgery...instead it felt more exploratory and meant to uncover how much I knew about the process and what were some strengths and weaknesses I'd have while facing everything.

Also, my dad, who had had a very hostile and negative reaction when I first told him I was getting this surgery, actually said, "You know, I think it's a really good thing you're doing this," this morning. Woot!

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WLSResources/ClothingExch    3,444

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It's nice that you're breathing easier on two counts.

Now that your father is seeing the light and if he lives nearby, you can invite him to attend a support group meeting with you. It may reassure his worries about your safety vis à vis surgery itself, not to mention any lingering bias he may hold.

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Rogofulm    2,440

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That's great – times 2!!! Always happy to hear about people being supported. We read so many stories here that go the other way. This can be a hard road, but if you stay positive and make good choices, you can enjoy the ride!

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Rogofulm    2,440

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Hey @@WLSResources/ClothingExch! Just saw your tag line. I'm only 13 away from joining you in "Masterland". I've been a "Bariatric Evangelist" for a long time now, both here and in real life, but I'll sure be glad to not have a title that sounds like a Ted Cruz fan. (No offense intended to those of you who are.) :rolleyes: Okay, down to 12 now...

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@@Rogofulm, I don't even like the "bariatric master" blurb. By poking around the site last week, I discovered that one can write wthat would make one's heart happy by becoming a subscribing ("VIP") member of BP. Maybe I'll get a round tuit some time, as it's low-cost enough. My chosen blurb will make no reference to surgery. For now my priority is dealing with concussion and aches and pains.

@@katanne, sorry to go on tangent so early in your thread. Blame the chap.


@@Rogofulm, I don't even like the "bariatric master" blurb. By poking around the site last week, I discovered that one can write wthat would make one's heart happy by becoming a subscribing ("VIP") member of BP. Maybe I'll get a round tuit some time, as it's low-cost enough. My chosen blurb will make no reference to surgery. For now my priority is dealing with concussion and aches and pains.

@@katanne, sorry to go on tangent so early in your thread. Blame the chap.

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Rogofulm    2,440

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My favorite is "Bariatric Gugu" but I've already passed through that. ROTFL!!
Gugu is funny!!! Of course I meant Guru. :lol:

@@Rogofulm, I don't even like the "bariatric master" blurb. By poking around the site last week, I discovered that one can write wthat would make one's heart happy by becoming a subscribing ("VIP") member of BP. Maybe I'll get a round tuit some time, as it's low-cost enough. My chosen blurb will make no reference to surgery. For now my priority is dealing with concussion and aches and pains.

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
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