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Passed my psych eval! Talk to office manager she said I can have my surgery in February jus waiting on the date so nervous ... N anxious....

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Hi Shelly7,

Just saw your post and thought- I am Impatient. Everything has been done. I thought my dr had submitted my file to insurance for pre-authorization. I found out today that the dr office does not submit to insurance for approval until the end of the month prior to the tentative surgery date. I am in a holding pattern. Started this whole process in Sept... I am so ready... Plus I am on the pre-surgery diet.. I am on the pre- surgery diet.. Feeling hungry all the time..

I want to get on with my new life style- this limbo is hard...

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Does anyone feel as they should get approval for the surgery before they make you jump through all these hoops? Many dont get approved.

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approval for surgery before you jump through all these hoops?

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i do!!!

i went to a seminar, then talked in depth with surgeon

doc said everything looked great so let's schedule the surgery

i was so anxious/excited to have surgery ASAP

talked to office people, surgery was scheduled

all was going full steam ahead

i had NOT been approved yet

but office people said all should go fine with insurance

don't worry

found out later (after surgery) that medicare at the time didn't cover the sleeve :angry:

i was pretty stupid, and took the word of office,

that approval would come soon

i didn't get approval pre-op

went into surgery blindly

sure enough - i was told a few months after the surgery

i had been denied - after i got a bill for $22,000!!! :o

i "discussed" the situation with my 2ndary insurance

Blue Cross/Blue Shield

after a few more "discussions" i was finally approved

(couple of years later medicare approved the sleeve)

bottom line, IMO officially get approved (all your paperwork, labs ducks in a row

etc sent to insurance company)

before you schedule surgery (my opinion)

then do all the hoop jumping

good luck

Passed my psych eval! Talk to office manager she said I can have my surgery in February us waiting on the date so nervous ... N anxious....

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@@shelly7

surgery all set for February

woo hoo - that's great

you'll get the date soon

i know you will!!

"God Grant Me Patience Just Hurry Up About It" ;)

best wishes with surgery

speedy recovery

kathy

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Does anyone feel as they should get approval for the surgery before they make you jump through all these hoops? Many dont get approved.

I got approved before i had to jump thru any hoops.

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got approved before i had to jump thru any hoops.

@@shelly7

that's great bud

hope you get an official date sooner than later :rolleyes:

February is right around the corner

good luck

speedy recovery

kathy

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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