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Hello everyone. This is my first post. I had gastric bypass on December 22,2015. I'm at the two week mark tomorrow. My highest weight was 265. Weight at time of surgery 242. And current weight is 227.

My question is...does anyone find that they are constantly hungry? My body doesn't tell me I'm hungry, so I know it's all mental. I'm mentally hungry all the time and I hate it. Did anyone else struggle with this and if so what did you do to stop the cravings of food.

I'm so happy with this decision I've made, I know it is a step in the right direction, however I find that I'm also just unhappy that I can't eat. I'm sure I sound like such a complainer, but I really want all of these cravings to go away and allow me to enjoy this journey!

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I've had the same issue and found that it's a lot like quitting smoking. Even after all the nicotine was out of my body my mind still craved cigarettes. Every day the craving became less. It took a long time but I'm coming up on my 5 year anniversary of quitting smoking and could care less about cigarettes now.

I'm 4 months out from gastric bypass surgery (lost 72 lbs) and still have sugar and white flour food cravings, but as long as I eat 3 Protein first meals a day and drink my Water, my mind doesn't tell me I'm hungry as much.

The false hunger is less now and I think/hope over more time the false hunger will go away completely.

Also distraction helps. When my mind tells me I'm hungry but my body is full, I distract myself with anything that works.

I text a friend, clean, do chores, suck on a piece of sugar free candy or chew a piece of sugar free gum or drink a cup of Decaf tea.

I'd like to say I run out and exercise to distract myself but that feels more like a punishment. ????

Just know it gets better. The more you focus on your health, the less your mind will sabotage you.

You can do this!!! ????????

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It gets better/easier the further out you get. A couple things that have helped me:

  1. Stick to measuring out your recommended portion sizes
  2. try and eat meals at the same time each day

I had a lot of head hungry the first few weeks, additionally I never got the "full" feeling from my 1/4-1/2 cup portion sizes. I also stress ate a ton, so anytime I was anxious during the first month or so, I'd get hungry. As @@mishi said, the key really is to stick with it and eventually your mind will adjust to the new normal.

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I've noticed I don't have the "full" feeling many have described. I eat slow, chew many times, and the closest I get is a slight feeling in my LUQ. I'm definitely having to stick to measuring out my meals and making sure I stick to my recommended allowances. My other issue is making sure I'm keeping up on my Water intake so I have less "down time" between meals.

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
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      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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