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Was anyone else extremely and emotional during pre op diet? feeling down.

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21 of October yeah little just so moody and very snappy, I hope I'm not like this after surgery!

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Hope not! I dont have a surgery date yet but i hope i dont go thru that moody stage LOL

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How exciting I just can't wait to get my life back and start doing things again I know it will be all worth it! I hope not for you either lol it's horrible I must seem like a major biznatch to my family! Counting down the days now!

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Ahhh how exciting it'll be here in no time! How long did you process take before getting surgery? Haha hope I dont. Yes it'll be all worth it! How long have you been over weight?

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I think I'm a little more emotional too. It's like the surgery is always in the back of my mind.

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@armadorb20 it took pretty much the whole of this year to process everything just waiting list and stuff and finally it's soon, and pretty much my whole life lol like I wasn't big big when I was younger but I wasn't the slimmest lol, I get kinda freaked out watching people who have lost all there weight I'm like how do you act when your skinny I'm so used to being big lol!

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M@@Linzlou I know right it's pretty much all I can think about when I'm not drewling over what I can't eat!

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It is normal to be emotional, you have a lot going on. You are planning for a big surgery and a major change to your life. The relationship you have with food is about to change forever. That is a lot to process and can be overwhelming.

Just take one day at a time and breathe. The other side is so wonderful that you will look back after surgery and be amazed. Good luck to you all and wishing you smooth surgeries and rapid recoveries!!!

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It is normal to be emotional, you have a lot going on. You are planning for a big surgery and a major change to your life. The relationship you have with food is about to change forever. That is a lot to process and can be overwhelming.

Just take one day at a time and breathe. The other side is so wonderful that you will look back after surgery and be amazed. Good luck to you all and wishing you smooth surgeries and rapid recoveries!!!

thank you so much I really need that!!!!!! Thankyou

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