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And obviously can't eat much of it so I end up giving everything to the bf or brother or friends and they're getting fatter because of it lol.

I still have that head hunger where I look at the menu and order things I used to but when it comes I don't like it am not hungry or just don't care for it so I pass it on to other people. Literally untouched plates. I like look at it and go ew.

Everyone around me is enjoying all the free food. I love that I can't eat as much as I used to not have the urge to do so. Patting my sleeve :)))

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Shows you want to stay on track.. Also a good person for giving food away instead of throwing it way. May the force be with you. ..

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It's not bothering my progress I think it's ok ... I think I'll need to get used to stop ordering so much ...waste of money. Psychologically gotta still work on it. I'll probably stop doing this once I see the bill for food and go what?! I didn't eat anything! Lol oh the struggles.

Shows you want to stay on track.. Also a good person for giving food away instead of throwing it way. May the force be with you. ..

Thank you obi wan. I try

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I rarely even order anymore. Servings are so big, my husband just gives me stuff off of his plate. A shrimp, a scallop, a bite or two of fish and a bite or two of the side and I am done. Sometimes I get an appetizer and we share with each other. We spend about half what we used to when we go out to dinner now, lol.

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I rarely even order anymore. Servings are so big, my husband just gives me stuff off of his plate. A shrimp, a scallop, a bite or two of fish and a bite or two of the side and I am done. Sometimes I get an appetizer and we share with each other. We spend about half what we used to when we go out to dinner now, lol.

I think this is what has to happens he orders and I pick as opposed to I order and waste everything and give it elsewhere. Problem is I hate what he eats. It's fried stuff that I just can't stomach anymore haha. Oh and he eats everything he orders plus mine

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i share but i just dont go out unless its a treat! how did we get here to begin with ?! we were being bad. we have to learn how to change our lifestyle. i still am that person that needs a little taste of everything and my husband just does not get it lol but so we can get 2 things to share and take home leftovers but he will usually bring for lunch to work.

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
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