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My insurance makes me wait 3 months and do supervised dieting by and...I go see them on May 19....then I have to lose 5 % of my body weight. I am 5'1 1/2 and weight 200#, but before you judge.....like I hear every time I mention it to someone...

I am diabetic, have sleep apnea, fatty liver disease, small vessel heart disease, degenerative back and knees, ruptured discussion in lower back and neck. I am 61 years old and want a bit of quality life left.

Back to the point I was going to make before defending myself.....lol....I am having my bypass at Swedish in Seattle. My daughter is having a baby in Norfolk Va in early November....if the baby adheres to its schedule.. from others experience, would it be unreasonable to try to have the surgery the second week of October hang around for two weeks then go to va, to finish my recuperatio? I certainly don't want to miss the birth of my grandchild.

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I had a RNY 2 years ago. By the time I left the hospital 2 days after surgery, my Type 2 diabetes was in remission and I have been off my meds since that time. I also probably had sleep apnea because for the previous years before surgery, I snored so loud that my wife couldn't sleep because I was keeping her awake all night long. Within a few weeks after surgery, my snoring disappeared. Now I sleep so quietly, that sometimes I find my wife standing over me in the middle of night. I wake up and ask her what she is doing. She said you are sleeping so quietly, I am trying to see if you are breathing or maybe your dead. I had several other conditions that went into remission after surgery including: high blood pressure, severe acid reflux (GERD), frequent urination, and profuse sweating.

I am 66 years old. Some people say they have "more energy" after surgery. I would probably rephrase this as "more stamina". I don't run around trying to think of things to do, but I am able to physically do things like when I was in my 30's. Last year I moved 100,000 pounds of gravel and 50,000 pounds of blocks by hand. I just took my time.

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I wanted to leave to see my first nephew being born 3 weeks after my surgery. Doctor won't let me go until my 4 week appointment. BUT every doctor is different.

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I appreciate all the advise

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No judgement here! We are all here for one reason or another- just trying to get healthy!

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    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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      Officially here for a long time, not just a good time💪
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    • KimBaxleyWilson

      Three months and four days ago... I was in Costa Rica having a life changing surgery! Yesterday we had a followup visit with Dr. Esmeral via video chat and this morning my middle number changed.  I'm down 47lbs and two pants sizes. I can wear a Large tshirt for the first time in like... 14 years! Woot!! Everything is going great. I have zero regrets. I went down to the riverwalk with a friend and walked 2 miles on Monday without even getting fatigued. And no more snoring or chugging pickle juice for crazy leg cramps! I need to go to the gym more... I'm making new shirts next week so that will motivate me. LOL But I'm also just not as TIRED all the time! I have a LONG way to go...but seeing the progress on the scales and in the mirror is a huge motivator!! Thank you all for cheering me on and supporting me!!
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