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CanyonBaby is a great person to listen to, so not going against her advice, which is valid advice, but I would suggest the opposite. Use a scale! I have weighed myself every single day since I had my surgery and it has been invaluable. I can look back and see that, ok the stall that felt like it lasted for months was actually only a month, or I was stuck at a pound away from goal for literally 3 months, but I know what day I made goal. I also have a reminder every single day if the scale is going in the wrong direction, so instead of waiting to weigh at the doctor, I take immediate steps to fix the problem that day. For example, yesterday I woke up at 129.6, which is just fine with me, however I had part of a chicken sandwich for dinner from a fast food place and while it was grilled, I knew I'd probably gain. I also had cheese puffs. I woke up at 130.0, so today I worked out (which I had done yesterday too) and I carefully watched what I ate. Right now I am 129.8, which by morning will drop down into the acceptable range of somewhere around 129.2ish. I don't suggest weighing at night and I don't do it very often, but weighing yourself every single day, first thing in the morning, is the absolute best way to avoid unpleasant surprises on the doctor's scale and to remain focused on accomplishing your goal weight.

It is far easier to correct a 1-2 pound gain than it is to ignore the scale and find out you somehow gained 10 pounds and then have to figure out how to lose that much without wanting to sob and throw things.

>I also weigh 1 st thing in the morning. Almost every day since surgery. I also measure too. Keeps me in line.

SW and NUT emphasized not weighing every day, but when I was successful on Weight Watchers in the past, I weighed every morning as well. I have weighed every morning since I started pre-op diet. I'm not quite 2 weeks post op, but I'm planning to continue. I know that sometimes the scale will not reflect my hard work, and I'm okay with that. But I think I need the daily feedback to keep me in line.

I don't think either way is incorrect. You really just have to find what works for you. I just happen to do better as a monthly weigher. food logging is much more helpful for me. I look at not just calories, but the macros. If I manage that correctly I know before I step on the scale whether I will show a loss. All the scale give me is a number. I want to focus on maintaining balanced eating habits.

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I do both tape and scale plus the mirror. Since I have started lifting it is hard to really tell if I am losing weight or losing body fat/gaining muscle (I put on n muscle extremely fast so tape is not always a good indicator) I do the scale and mirror daily. And tape once a week.

CrayonBaby is right as well es everybody else it is easier to fix small gains than wait for the unknown till you go to the Dr. Definitely go back to what you were doing when you were losing quickly. Ditch the soda and empty calories, and go back to the Protein and Water, Chrystal Light... cut all grain carbs and anything that is not healthy. You can do it it will just take hard work and utilizing the tool of your surgery to your advantage.

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    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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