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Hi,

What was your weight loss like the fist month after surgery? I am almost 3 weeks after surgery and only lost about 10 pounds. This week did not loose at all, even gained half a pound :(. Am I doing something wrong? Getting a bit discouraged. Thanks

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Everyone loses at their own pace, though I know that can be incredibly frustrating. I lost just under 15 pounds my first month and have only lost about 6 pounds per month since my third month out.

Stick to the plan and you WILL lose, even if it's not as fast as you would like. Make sure you are getting Protein first and meeting your daily requirements of Protein and Water. Also, you should be walking for exercise at 3 weeks out and you can slowly start increasing your intensity and move on to other activities as you are cleared to by your surgeon.

There are some big advantages to slow loss once you get past the "diet mentality". Remember, your sleeve is for life. Unlike a diet, you will never be "done" with your sleeve. So there really is no need to lose the weight quickly or force any sorts of deadlines on yourself. In the mean time, slow loss means less stress on your body/skin, not having to replace your clothes as quickly, and not having to answer so many prying questions about your weight loss.

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@@Tanya Gif - It varies greatly. Some people lose nothing initially. Others lose massive amounts. Do not compare yourself to others. Follow your program. Focus on getting in your Protein, drinking fluids/water and walking and/or exercise at least 30 minutes a day. Better yet, step away from the scale. Instead take your measurements. Then retake them once a month. There will be times the scale doesn't move. NSV (non -scale victories) will be your saving grace

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I'm still pre-op but have been reading here for a few months now. There seem to be a lot of posts regarding the dreaded "week 3 stall". I'd check out some of those posts too, to reassure that you're not alone in this experience :)

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Thank you so much everyone! It really helps to get such tremendous support. @@BLERDgirl, it does scare me when you say some people loose nothing :huh: . Do you mean nothing all together? Really hope that's not going to be my case.

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Thank you so much everyone! It really helps to get such tremendous support. @@BLERDgirl, it does scare me when you say some people loose nothing :huh: . Do you mean nothing all together? Really hope that's not going to be my case.

I just mean some people go 3 weeks with little to no weight loss. You just have to keep in mind this is not a quick fix. This is for the long haul. Be patient, give your body time to adjust. The weight loss will happen.

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3 weeks out and down 37lbs but I've been in the hospital most of the time

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@@WendieBryant .. I would not want to be in a hospital for 3weeks, but part of me would be glad so I was sure I was doing everything correctly. Also, if I was having chest pains that everyone says comes from gas.. my anxiety wouldn't make me think I was having a heart attack.

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I was about to post that also because I am beginning to get frustrated with the same number on the scale. I am 2 weeks out tomorrow and have not lost any weight in a week. I am drinking 2 double Protein shakes per day and then having one meal with Protein in it. Plenty of fluids. My post-op appointment is Saturday and I am afraid the doctor will think I have not followed the plan because I have not lost!!

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Thank you for these answers. I'm currently in my 1st stall (as it were) I am about 6 weeks post op and haven't lost anything in about 2 1/2 weeks. I'm sticking rigidly with the program. I lost 39lbs initially and the scale just doesn't move. I know it will eventually since I'm not consuming enough to even gain.

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I am six weeks out today and have also hit a stall. I am following the program so it's a bit frustrating. I know we shouldn't look for validation on the scale but I do. It's tough even though I know it's not even mathematically possible for me to have gained or not lost. Mind games.

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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