For months I have been President of the Cool club when it came to getting my sleeve. Now 6 days before surgery the freak out is here. The thoughts of death and complications have me worried. I try to assure myself that I will be ok. I am doing my best to stay positive. I'm 26 with a 40BMI, I hope my age and weight is a positive for the healing process (mostly age). How is everyone coping with the scary part of surgery? Tips and advice would be highly appreciated.

Hello Slimsoon 1988,

My surgery date is on the 27th and I believe every sleeve patient has had those same thoughts just prior to surgery. The key is to focus on positive thoughts and a speedy recovery. Don't let negative thoughts consume you!!

Cathy B.

I don't know of anybody who is not afraid before surgery. Don't let last minute jitters get you down!

Its a everyones thing been scared, its your life be positive. All the best and good luck!!!

I felt that way too, and more so about a week before my date. I think it all just starts to get real, after many months of planning. Good luck, I am sure you will do great!!

Thank you everyone. 5 more days! I really hope and pray to have a safe surgery and speedy recovery afterwards.

I definitely understand. I, too, have been cool and rational throughout planning but now that it IS going to happen, I feel anxious and afraid. My mind is my worst enemy when I am afraid. I am grieving too in anticipation of giving up the foods I depend on to keep me comfortable emotionally. I am asking for courage and calmness as I face this major decision which will impact me forever. Best of luck to you. I am right there with you. Together we can manage our fears.