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So I am new here, but have lurked about the forum for some time. My pre-surgery liquid diet has been very successful and I have lost over 20lbs. Awsome, but the question of whether I rushed into the surgery option is naturally creeping in now. Anyone else have this thought?

Also, just looking for any last minute advice, if you had one thing to tell someone to prepare them, what would it be?

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relax!

You are not clear on how you think you rushed the surgery option. I can tell you, I wish I did this DECADES ago... I feel so much better and more in control than I ever have.

I was SO READY for the surgery, I couldn't wait!

You don't list your weight or specifics...but all I can say, if you have been approved, go for it and follow the program, it is meant for success, as are you!

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I lost about 45 lbs before surgery, but I've also lost weight many times before. The surgery is permanent tool to help me maintain my physical cravings and provide a guardrail for overeating. I know I can lose weight, but Portion Control and hunger were the two of the physical reasons I put it back on. That's why I got the surgery and I can't imagine ever regretting it.

Last minute advice: The thought of the surgery is much worse than the surgery itself...BUT...allow yourself the recovery time necessary.

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relax!

You are not clear on how you think you rushed the surgery option. I can tell you, I wish I did this DECADES ago... I feel so much better and more in control than I ever have.

I was SO READY for the surgery, I couldn't wait!

You don't list your weight or specifics...but all I can say, if you have been approved, go for it and follow the program, it is meant for success, as are you!

Thanks for your reply. My thought was that I have proven to myself that I can lose wieght when necessary by losing a bunch with the liquid diet, but I tend to agree with AlwaysVegas, I have done that before and a permanent tool is going to help me.

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You're going to LOVE donating all of your huge clothes to goodwill!! Good luck to you!!

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we've all been there...yo-yo'd...I have been "maintaining" for a year now... I would like to lose more, but I have physical issues (soon to be addressed since I have lost enough weight for surgery) ... once my knees are replaced, plan on go...go...going! :)

the tool you recieve with this surgery is such a gift... ;-) I can't even begin to tell you how it's turned my life around so far!!!

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I'm more nervous of the surgery, than the food; this is my first time ever having surgery!

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@msveej30 I had gallbladder surgery a few years ago...that was my first surgery...it was horrible...I had an attack just before Christmas and had to stay in the hospital for the surgery after Christmas, and my recovery time was more than for my WLS...this is laproscopic...so much better these days... it's a very good thing!

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thanks so much! With me having anxiety, lord can they just knock me out when I get there? whew! ok, I won't dwell on it! lol

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@@msveej30 It's normal to worry. But all you have to do is lie down. Everyone else does the hard work. :) I had a hernia surgery the year before, so I knew what to expect.

But really, once they give you the sedative before surgery...and that's ONE great sedative...it's all coasting. You just kick back, realize you're in great hands, then wait for them to tell you they're going to start the anesthesia. The nurses tell you the entire time what they're doing. "OK, we're going to take you to the OR now...", "We're going to take some blood so your surgeon can check your Vitamins..." That sort of thing. This is true pre- and post-op. Nothing is mysterious.

The last thing I remember before surgery was hearing, "OK, we're going to start the anesthesia..." and then I woke up. I was a bit dizzy, but it cleared pretty quickly. Ta-dah! Sleeved.

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that makes me feel better!

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I have anxiety issues too...but, like I said, I was more excited than nervous, I couldn't sleep the night before... but, fortunately my surgery was first thing...and they put you right out....nighty night :) ... when you wake up, you think it's been minutes, not hours...

let us know how it goes for you! :)

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we've all been there...yo-yo'd...I have been "maintaining" for a year now... I would like to lose more, but I have physical issues (soon to be addressed since I have lost enough weight for surgery) ... once my knees are replaced, plan on go...go...going! :)

the tool you recieve with this surgery is such a gift... ;-) I can't even begin to tell you how it's turned my life around so far!!!

Hi I am going to be in your shoes soon. Surgery will happen hopefully in Dec., I am meeting the surgeon next week but I wanted to ask you was it your choice to wait over a year to do your knees? I am doing this surgery because I need to lose weight for knee replacdments. I hope to have mine done within 6 mths.

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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