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Hi guys I'm seeing my surgeon next week and I have put a ton of thought and research into this decision. I'm really worried about failure down the road. Has this made a lasting change in your relationship to food, thanks!

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Has it made changes? yes and no... I still have cravings and longings, although the actual, real desire to eat those things has diminished. I fell much more empowered to walk away from my trigger foods. My main weakness was allowing myself to become hungry .. when I got hungry, I would eat a *lot* of whatever I craved at the time - whole bags of Reese's minis, 2-3 meals at Taco Bell, etc. So, this surgery has helped in two ways with that: I don't get as hungry and I physically can't eat an entire bag of candy. Plus, it just feels really, really good to have the strength to not eat like that anymore! As I progress more and more, I am craving that feeling of making a good choice more than I'm craving candy.

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No, this surgery will not help your addiction to food. If you are truly addicted you will find a way to eat around your sleeve. This issue will be addressed when you have your psych eval. Be honest and get help dealing with it so you have the best outcome. Best.

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Thanks for your answers! I guess I should clairfy addiction, I figured we alll have our issues I really wanted to know how this surgery changed your relationship with food? Anything from a guys perspective, thanks, again.

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I would have to disagree with FineDiva. This surgery has totally exposed my poor relationship with food. Brought things to light which would have remained in the dark. I now question why I am eating instead of mindlessly putting food in my mouth. Am I eating because I am hungry or am I trying to fill some other void. Usually it is the latter, and if I am honest with myself, I can then further analyze what emptiness I am trying to fill.

So yes, for me, this surgery has totally helped with my addiction to food and me getting down to root causes of why I abuse it. Which, in turn, has helped me address issues in my life which truly needed addressing.

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GUYS ROOM........

As an emotion eater, pleasure eater, anytime eater, this surgery has changed my life. I no longer feel the urge to eat, in fact, I have to remind myself to eat. I now control my future. best of luck to you!

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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