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I am 10 months post-op and have lost a total of 93 pounds. Don't get me wrong, I'm so proud of that number, BUT I have lost NOTHING in 3 months!!! I even gain a few pounds then lose then...kind of like a game with just those few pounds. Up and down, up and down! I workout at the gym a minimum

of 3 days a week, but usually get there 5 days. I eat right, with the exception of a few bites of not great choices here & there, but nothing to even blink an eye at! Everytime I talk to my doctor, she says "hmmm you really should be losing more rapidly still...lets have you talk to the nutritionist." Then they agree I'm eating fine and I end up with no help or suggestions!!!

Has this happened to anyone else out there? What did you to about it? Please help?!?!?!?!

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Hi Kim,

I've read some people do a reset with two weeks of liquid diet and follow their postop nutrition plan. You also need to know that some of your weight is from excess skin. Maybe you are drinking some calories or could have possibly developed a thyroid issue? Have your blood checked, that was my preop weight loss issue. Sometimes it just acts up.

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I'm 14 months out and haven't lost since my tenth month. My weight varies within a 3-4 pound range, given Water weight (and other bodily substances ;) ). I workout 5 days out of the week as well. However, I will say that I have gone down another size. I know I've shed fat and gained muscle. Muscle is denser than fat. One pound of fat takes up a LOT more room than one pound of muscle. There's a good chance you're packing up that lean meat!

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I just had my thyroid checked...normal! I did have some "female" issues and just had surgery (one day) on Monday. Was thinking maybe that was a factor?! I only drink Water or fresh brewed iced tea and coffee in the morning. I eat enough Protein, always making that the main part of my meals. Some days I feel great and "smaller" then others I feel bloated and huge! I think maybe I might try to go back to the "beginning" stage and see if that helps kickstart my body?!?!? I'm so so so frustrated and sad, like I've done this for nothing since I'm working so hard & feel like I'm hitting a brick wall!!

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You haven't done this for nothing. You're over 90 pounds down in less than a year. This is just a small hiccup...your body adjusting...whatever medical explanation out there. You're smaller, healthier, getting fit with all that exercise. Would you be where you are today without the assistance of the sleeve?

Pick your head up, put one foot in front of the other and keep on trekking along. You WILL get there!

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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