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Hi all, I'm a newbie! I was banded on 7/9/14 and lost 19lbs since my surgery 3+ weeks ago (lost another 18 during pre-op diet). At 10 days post op I was down 15lbs from my weight the day of surgery and was so motivated and felt so confidant! I was walking daily and was doing great! Week 2 I went into mushies and the weightloss completely stopped and hunger started to set in. My surgeon doesn't fill the band once it is first put in so I had and felt no restriction. My week 3 post op appt I had gained a pound since my 10 day checkup. I was crushed and my confidence shot. My surgeon gave me a fill (he wouldn't tell me how many cc's he put in which kind of annoyed me) and put me in liquids for 3 days then mushies for 3 then "regular food" after that. This was 4 days ago and I've lost 6lbs since. My problem is I am going to bed hungry almost every night and still don't feel what others are calling this big restriction. I eat very little and play by the rules of portions my surgeon gave me. I'm just struggling with how do I know when I'm satisfied vs. full? I stop eating (drinking) because I know this is the portion I'm allowed to eat, not because I'm satisfied. I'm so jealous of people who say a tiny amount makes them full. Will this point ever come for me? I'm just so sick of feeling hungry all the time, but refuse to eat more because I am determined to be successful. Any tips/advice is appreciated! Thanks so much!

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Hi all, I'm a newbie! I was banded on 7/9/14 and lost 19lbs since my surgery 3+ weeks ago (lost another 18 during pre-op diet). At 10 days post op I was down 15lbs from my weight the day of surgery and was so motivated and felt so confidant! I was walking daily and was doing great! Week 2 I went into mushies and the weightloss completely stopped and hunger started to set in. My surgeon doesn't fill the band once it is first put in so I had and felt no restriction. My week 3 post op appt I had gained a pound since my 10 day checkup. I was crushed and my confidence shot. My surgeon gave me a fill (he wouldn't tell me how many cc's he put in which kind of annoyed me) and put me in liquids for 3 days then mushies for 3 then "regular food" after that. This was 4 days ago and I've lost 6lbs since. My problem is I am going to bed hungry almost every night and still don't feel what others are calling this big restriction. I eat very little and play by the rules of portions my surgeon gave me. I'm just struggling with how do I know when I'm satisfied vs. full? I stop eating (drinking) because I know this is the portion I'm allowed to eat, not because I'm satisfied. I'm so jealous of people who say a tiny amount makes them full. Will this point ever come for me? I'm just so sick of feeling hungry all the time, but refuse to eat more because I am determined to be successful. Any tips/advice is appreciated! Thanks so much!

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Well, first, relax, what you're experiencing has happened to almost all of us. It's called Bandster Hell!! :( It's that period of time between surgery and getting that fill that gives you some level of satiety so you're not hungry for up to 4 hours.

I lost 12 lbs the first two weeks after surgery and then nothing for the next 3.5 months. I felt like I was starving. But, I knew by reading here and being told by a friend who had the band that my issue was temporary. Around my 4th month and 3rd fill I finally felt restriction/satiety and it took another 3 fills to get to the green zone.

B-52(forum member) always said, "Till there's restriction, it's just another diet" :angry: So true.

To stave off hunger, I ate healthy food but not the 1/2 cup to 1 cup they recommended. That's why I didn't lose weight. I refused to diet. That's why I was banded. So, no hunger for me, no deprivation, but no chocolate cake or ice cream either. Just healthy foods like fish, chicken, veggies, salads and eggs. Lots of eggs.< /p>

It will get better but not right away. Keep bugging your doctor for fills.

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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