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EIGHT YEARS POST-OP AND GAINING WEIGHT



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Hello all. I am new to the group and am looking forward to reading all the posts and possibly making some new friends! Being a bariatric patient feels lonely at times so I am thankful for this group. I had RNY gastric bypass 8 years ago and lost about 80 pounds which I lost within a year and surpassed my goal weight of 100 pounds. My lowest weight was 93 pounds, which was too low for me, but it was very difficult for me not to get sick at practically every meal for a while. I pretty much started eating anything I could keep down so I could gain some weight as I did not look healthy. I was able to bounce back and maintain a 98 to 103 pound ideal weight for about 6 years then I slowly started to gain weight again. I was able to eat more and more and dumped less and less, seemingly overnight, and now I have crept out of my wardrobe I worked so hard to get into! I am very depressed as I now have some medical issues I have to deal with due to vitamin/mineral deficiency, scariest one being osteoporosis. I am only 45 years old. I feel so vulnerable to other diseases due to the malabsorption aspect of the surgery. I am popping so many pills a day to try and keep up with the Vitamin deficiencies that it is cery sifficult to keep up. It is so unnatural and difficult to live this way. To make matters worse, i have knee problems and have pain every time I start an exercise program, which is now so important due to the osteoporosis. I live in South Florida and am looking for a good physician who is experienced working with bariatric patients. Any suggestions? I also need some suggestions on how to get back on track and lose weight. I apologize for the length of my post and thank you for taking the time to read it and for your suggestions. Also, i would love to meet some buddies in south florida!

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Well, I don't know how much help I can be. I am only a year out and have just hit my goal weight, so I am now focusing on maintenance. I live in Minnesota, about as far from south Florida as you can get!

However, I do really fear gaining my weight back. I do relate that I think I can eat quite a bit more than I should be able to and I have never dumped. The combo scares me. So, I am being very vigilant about my diet. I record everything I eat on MyFitnessPal.com, this I think is key to my success thus far.

Exercise is difficult with knee problems. Do you have access to a pool at all? Swimming or even walking in a pool is much easier on your knees and is great exercise. Resistance or weight training is also very beneficial. You don't need much equipment, just some light hand weights work great.

Finally, I would get in touch with a bariatric clinic that is convenient to you. If you are still in the area where you had your surgery give them a call, otherwise choose a new one. Most good ones will take on patients from other clinic's. Set up an appointment for a complete work up and see where your levels are at. You might have better luck with some of the medically specialized bariatric Vitamins that you find on line if you are not adequately absorbing the nutrients in regular Vitamins. The clinic NUT should be able to help you with an eating plan that will work for you.

You have done amazingly well for YEARS! You can definitely get back on track and feel good again. The journey doesn't end with attainment of our goal weight. We will all face challenges, it's what we do about them that will determine true long term success. YOU ARE WORTH FIGHTING FOR!! GO FOR IT!

Carol

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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