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Hi!

I've only posted a few times but I'm so excited I HAVE to post this! My best friend and I are doing this together. We've both had weight problems most of our lives and when we researched the lapband we thought it was just the tool we needed to get us started on the way to a healthier life.

We just had our consultation appointment yesterday with Dr. Nicholas Bertha in Florham Park, NJ. He answered all of our questions, was very imformative, was great to talk to and funny so we were relieved that we felt we had chosen the right doctor for us. We assumed that he would sit down and talk with us about our options and prepare us for what we would go thru etc., then he would tell us that we would come back for another appointment to discuss the insurance and set up a date for surgery etc. WRONG! We finished talking to him and he promptly said that we were perfect candidates for the procedure and if we were sure that this was what we wanted to do we should go out and schedule our surgery!!! We were completely shocked and totally excited, we kind of felt like idiots because we couldn't stop smiling!:cool: We kind of left the office in a daze and needed some time to let it all sink in. So our surgery is scheduled together for May 15th first thing in the morning, we have to be at Morristown Hospital by 5:30 AM :confused: but we dont mind! We have a 3 hour pre-op class to attend 2 weeks before the surgery. We don't have to follow a pre-op diet, just liquids 24 hours before. Now we have to start gathering together everything we'll need. We found some great lists on here too. So anyway, we are totally thrilled and can't wait to become bandsters and start losing this weight!! Everyones posts are so informative and encouraging, I love reading what everyone has to say.

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YAY!!! I had to come and find your post, because of course, I'm the BEST FRIEND and I'm SO EXCITED to have our date! I can't wait!!!

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Good luck ladies! How exciting to be having it done with your best friend!!! I wish I had someone to do it with - thats why LBT is so important to me. Anyway you guys will do great and keep each other going. Are you self pays? How'd you get insurance to ok so quick?

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Woooohooooo CARA..Thats awesome for the both of you..

Me and my sister were banded the same day too. Its well worth having a buddy system. Best wishes. :confused:

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    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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