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Hi my name is Stephanie, i just joined this awesome website 5-12-14. I seek a real, long term post op successful woman age 35-45 to be a supportive pen pal/buddy. I was Blessed to have Gastric Bypass surgery 8-22-2011 and was sick for 1 1/2 yrs. right away, gained weight back due to my food Addiction Emotional Eating- Binge Eating- Overeating

So i welcome a genuine person to be a good source of inspiration, and advice. Please message me if you are interested, we can communicate via email, messaging on this site or cell phone exchange. thx

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I'm not a long time out. But I just wanted to wish you all the best.

Xx

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<p>Hi my name is Stephanie, i just joined this awesome website 5-12-14. I seek a real, long term post op successful woman age 35-45 to be a supportive pen pal/buddy. I was Blessed to have Gastric Bypass surgery 8-22-2011 and was sick for 1 1/2 yrs. right away, gained weight back due to my food Addiction Emotional Eating- Binge Eating- Overeating</p> <p> </p> <p>So i welcome a genuine person to be a good source of inspiration, and advice. Please message me if you are interested, we can communicate via email, messaging on this site or cell phone exchange. thx</p> <p> </p>

Stephanie,

I had surgery 6/5/12. I am 34 and live in Texas. Feel free to send me a message.

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Hi my name is Stephanie, i just joined this awesome website 5-12-14. I seek a real, long term post op successful woman age 35-45 to be a supportive pen pal/buddy. I was Blessed to have Gastric Bypass surgery 8-22-2011 and was sick for 1 1/2 yrs. right away, gained weight back due to my food Addiction Emotional Eating- Binge Eating- Overeating

So i welcome a genuine person to be a good source of inspiration, and advice. Please message me if you are interested, we can communicate via email, messaging on this site or cell phone exchange. thx

Hi Stephanie,

I'm a 7 year post op RNY who is now a coordinator for our local community hospital. Please feel free to message me anytime!

Gina

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Hi, I understand the struggle is real girl. My surgery was 2-2-14. Now, I'm trying my best to maintain at this point. If you feel like chatting you can message me. Good Luck

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HI Stephanie I am 10 months out from my RNY surgery and struggling with loosing weight., I am located in the Denver Area and would love to have a pal to talk to when I struggle and I am a great listener. Let me know if you are interested

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