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Hi! My name is Casie and I'm 31 years old, married for 7.5yrs with 3 beautiful daughters ages 5, 2, & 2. I started my journey back in January by doing lots and lots of research. I finally made an appointment without discussing it with my husband and made the decision to move forward. My insurance required a 3 month supervised diet and my surgeons group also had a plethora of things that needed to be done before surgery could be scheduled. I found out that I have sleep apnea, which I wasn't expecting but all the more reason to keep pushing through. My journey is really just beginning as I am now 4 days post op. But I have no regrets. I can't wait to see how the next 6 months go.

Heaviest weight: 256

Weight day of surgery: 236

Weight 4 days post op: 231

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Congrats! This will be an awesome experience for you. Just take it slow and easy and follow your doctor's orders and you will do great!

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Awww wonderful! Congrats and I'm sure the best is yet to come. I'm getting sleeved on 5/5 so counting down the days. Good luck, I hope you're up and about and feeling awsome and much lighter soon! :)

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Congrats to you!!! Just remember your not alone, we are all in this together :D !!

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Hi Casie!

How are you feeling? I hope things are still going well for you! Did you happen to ask Dr. Marker how many sleeve surgeries he has done and have there been any complications? I have been reading some horror stories on here and I a little freaked out! LOL I probably should have stayed away from the "complications" section!! :)

Susan

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I know their group is very successful. Of course their are complications but they have maintained a "center of excellence" rating because of patient success. I didn't specifically ask that question but he willing told us of some issues he has encountered, some because the patient did not do what they were supposed to an others just a risk that happens with surgeries. I have yet to hear anything bad about either of the surgeons.

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Happy Easter! How are you feeling? Hope you're doing well and feeling good! I go tomorrow afternoon for my initial visit and I'm so ready to start my journey. Did Dr. Marker want you to lose a specific amount before surgery? How did you choose your goal weight? I just want to be healthy and have no idea what my goal weight is! :)

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I'm doing well. They require 8-10% of your body weight. Also once your initial weigh in, you cannot gain any weight. They document your weight each visit. The nurse told me the morning of my surgery that if a patient comes in for surgery and has gained 1 pound he will cancel surgery. So once you commit to this you need to stick to your plan. I did low carb as they instructed. meat and green, if it's either of those you can have it.

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I'm doing much better. I got my drain out today and in the last 20 days I have lost 14lbs. Dr Marker was thrilled with my progress and I'm just glad to have that awful drain removed. I get to graduate to pureed foods now so we will see how that goes. Glad to be on the other side of surgery and feeling like myself again.

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Good for you - 14 lbs gone is fabulous! I bet you do feel SO much better without the drain. How long do you stay on pureed foods? Hope they agree with your tummy! When do you go back to Dr. Marker?

Susan :)

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      1. Selina333

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    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. LeighaTR

        I hope your surgery on Wednesday goes well. You will be able to do all sorts of new things as you find your new normal after surgery. I don't know this from experience yet, but I am seeing a lot of positive things from people who have had it done. Best of luck!

    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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      Officially here for a long time, not just a good time💪
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