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Hi! I just wanted to introduce myself. I just had my consultation today. Met with the surgeon and nutritionist. I'm self pay because my insurance (CIGNA) does not cover it on the plan I have. Big bummer! It's a lot of money, but I was already psyched to get it, so I am going for it! Never invested this much on myself in my life. That's what I said to the surgeon and he shot back, "So how much was your car?". Ok fine. Point taken. It just seems strange to pay this much just for something that is 100% only for myself.

The best thing about self-pay is pretty much picking your own date. Mine is March 3. It's becoming a reality. I'm super nervous for everything to go right!

Any suggestions on calming the nerves are appreciated!

- K

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Congratulations on taking this step to turn your life and health around. I'm so happy for you! It is a very powerful thing to choose ourselves first.

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Best gift you can give yourself

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We have an only life and we should try to make it worth living.

Investing on yourself is the best choice.

I ' sure you have made the right decision

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Welcome and congratulations on the beginning of your journey!

When my nerves started to get the best of me before my September surgery, I would remind myself all the reasons why it was the right choice. I would be healthy and more mobile. I would be getting the life I deserve to live instead of the life I was restricted to because of my extra weight.

Make a list. Say it out loud to yourself when you get the jitters. And know we've all been there and we're all here for you! This group is the best ever!

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I was very nervous before surgery too. I started to feel like I was being selfish, especially if something had went wrong. Sometimes selfish is good though because although it seems like this surgery is 100% for you, your family and friends get the benefit of a happier healthier more active you. You are in good hands with your surgeon, just follow all the instructions he gives you. Congrats and welcome to the faimily!

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Congratulations on beginning your journey and just remember, your health is the best investment you can make. You are definitely worth every. single. penny! :D Good luck, going forward. Your date is coming up, fast. You'll be a bandster before you know it. :D

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