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Hi.

I started looking into WLS last summer, doing lots of research, and finally decided on the sleeve. My first "weigh-in" with my PCP was in November, and monthly since then, so, according to my Michigan insurance, I'll have my 6 months of weigh-ins and physician documentation by April. I see the bariatrician on Feb 10 (I was supposed to see her on Monday, but the weather prevented me from traveling the 50 miles to her office). And during the next 3 months, I'll have my psych eval and whatever else is necessary. I talked to the nurse last week, and she's thinking I'll probably have the surgery in April or early May. I'm getting excited!

I'll be 50 in a couple of months, and I've tried so hard for the past 2 years to lose weight to no avail. Most of my family, past and present, has had weight issues. I'm hoping I can be an inspiration to some, especially to my older brother, who is 52 and probably weighs around 350.

I'm really looking forward to a new me! Looking forward to being able to walk and exercise with little to no back or foot pain, also!

I've only had time to read a few threads in the forum, but I hope to become a regular here.

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Hi: I'm at the same point you are. I just turned 49 and started everything in October. I need six months of weigh-ins and consults for my insurance, so I will (hopefully) be sleeved in April/May too. We can share our experiences and give each other support!

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Welcome!! Wendy, you are among friends here. I have found this forum to be a wealth of knowledge, laughs and encouragement. Best of luck going forward to all prospective sleevers! Best decision I ever made.

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Spend this 6 month time to learn everything you can!! Good luck!

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We can share our experiences and give each other support!

That would be awesome!

As it is right now, the only one who knows I'm going to have this done is my husband. I don't want to tell ANYONE else until after the surgery is over, because I just don't want to deal with any arguments or negativity about it, so any kind of online help/advise/support etc is greatly appreciated!! From EVERYONE. :)

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The only person that I have discussed this with is my husband, too. I haven't even told my mom or my sister (yet). I definitely am not saying anything to my in-laws either. I don't want to have to explain my decision and the reasons for it to anyone. I will eventually tell my mom and sister, but I'm not sure when that will be. That is why I love this site so much. There are so many other people in our positions and it is great to support each other. This is such a great source of info too. Best of luck to us!

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WendyT, you will learn so much during the pre-op nutrition phase of your journey. The biggest take-a-way for me was Portion Control. Portions were a whole lot smaller than I thought. My eyes were bigger than my stomach. Now, my eyes really are bigger than my stomach. Welcome to the forum.

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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