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Hello everyone. I am Lisa, a 32 year old mom of 2 girls. I'm just getting started on the process. I went to the seminar on Sep 10 and am still waiting for the surgeon's office to verify benefits (not approval, just that WLS is a covered option). I'm already getting impatient, it has been a month almost and I can't even get in for he initial consultation yet! The office said 3 months is a typical wait from seminar to surgery but I will obviously be longer than that!

Anyway, I've been passing the time by lurking here and thought I would introduce myself and say hi :o). My PCP recommended the sleeve but reading here helps me think of things to discuss with the surgeon when (if?!) I get to that initial appointment.

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Hi there and congratulations on taking the first step to a happier, healthier life!

Are there any other offices in your area that you can go speak to? I know some places have a long waiting list but I started my first process in May (seminar) then had surgery in August. I feel very lucky but I was also self pay. You can call your insurance and ask if your plan covers bariatric surgery, and if it does and you meet all the requirements (the BMI of 40 or 35 with two conditions) there should be no problem at all. If you can't even get a consultation for 3 months - I imagine you won't be able to get the actual surgery for a very long time. That is okay. But if this is something you truly want in your heart, and you are prepared for, you should look at other locations in your area (if there is one)

Good luck~

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There is one other practice that may take my insurance, and another place I could go to if I did self pay. It would probably take just as long or longer to switch over, plus I like the surgeon at the current place.

The frustrating part is that I have already talked to my insurance and know it should be covered but it apparently isn't as simple as them just telling that to the surgeon. Hopefully once the process gets started it will go quicker. I've been thinking about this for years and am ready to move forward!

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Lucky, Part of the surgeons process is to make sure #1- that you are physically ready for the surgery and #2 - you are mentally ready as well . There are also insurance requirements that have to be met. Every surgeon or practice has different procedures as well, especially in terms pre surgery diet, order of tests, etc.

My process has been simple, i could have been 8 weeks Seminar to Surgery but it will be closer to 10. Very quick compared to some of the folks here.

I think the main thing is to ask a lot of questions, get specific answers regarding timelines and what yours and the surgeons and insurance companies responsibilities are and go from their.

If you dont like the wait or if you feel like you arent getting enough of response, see if there is another surgeon in your area that can do it for you!!!

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    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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