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I had to open a case in a safe horizon shelter because things are starting to get out of hand. I have to leave last day of June to July 2015. I'm waiting and being patience my daughter graduate in 2015 from high school. I can't be moving around making her crazy. She has a lot of school work going for her self right now. This is the perfect time leaving in 2015. I still have the interview for housing,but my friend who is also a landlord(not mine) don't want me applying or moving into any housing project. She is funny in the sense of hey move into a luxury building in a great neighborhood,and don't worry about high rent. I know how to get you in for low rent,but in a luxury building. She's like look you live in a

Co-Op great area you gonna go into low class housing project with 3 kids. Your out of your mind. I'm gonna help you out. I will find you a place in a luxury building,and low rent,and you don't have to live off the government. I must admit my friend knows me too well. I don't want to live worst,but I don't want to continue putting up with emotional abuse. She tells me don't leave with out her knowing where,and i'm going and not to a housing project so I don't want to hear you mention that anymore.

let's see what happens... I will keep her in mind lmbo luxury building. I'm just saving almost every penny I get. Damn it's past 12am bed time good night

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I had to open a case in a safe horizon shelter because things are starting to get out of hand. I have to leave last day of June to July 2015. I'm waiting and being patience my daughter graduate in 2015 from high school. I can't be moving around making her crazy. She has a lot of school work going for her self right now. This is the perfect time leaving in 2015. I still have the interview for housing,but my friend who is also a landlord(not mine) don't want me applying or moving into any housing project. She is funny in the sense of hey move into a luxury building in a great neighborhood,and don't worry about high rent. I know how to get you in for low rent,but in a luxury building. She's like look you live in a

Co-Op great area you gonna go into low class housing project with 3 kids. Your out of your mind. I'm gonna help you out. I will find you a place in a luxury building,and low rent,and you don't have to live off the government. I must admit my friend knows me too well. I don't want to live worst,but I don't want to continue putting up with emotional abuse. She tells me don't leave with out her knowing where,and i'm going and not to a housing project so I don't want to hear you mention that anymore.

let's see what happens... I will keep her in mind lmbo luxury building. I'm just saving almost every penny I get. Damn it's past 12am bed time good night

Tiny you are in my prayers that all turns out well for you. My heart goes out to you and your children.

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Tiny you are in my prayers that all turns out well for you. My heart goes out to you and your children.

Thank you I didn't make it right the first time around,but i'm not making the same mistake with the smaller kids. As time passes you grow up,and realize that your kids are more important then anything in this world. My kids are not only small they are special need,and there for I can't let them stay past the year 2015 in this situation where they will understand what's going on,but yet they are being verbally abuse with no reasons only the fact that I gave birth to them,and they are the way they are. All kids are innocent,and have no fault in the way God gave them to me. I didn't ask for a special need child. I was given 2 because I'm patience,and I love them,and because it was time for me to get out of this marriage. Since my oldest child is almost done with school I'm waiting on that. Everything else can be fix such as having school bus drop off & pick up the small kids. I just have to make the best out of the situation,and start throwing stuff I don't need out. I'm doing a garage sale.

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Thank you I didn't make it right the first time around' date='but i'm not making the same mistake with the smaller kids. As time passes you grow up,and realize that your kids are more important then anything in this world. My kids are not only small they are special need,and there for I can't let them stay past the year 2015 in this situation where they will understand what's going on,but yet they are being verbally abuse with no reasons only the fact that I gave birth to them,and they are the way they are. All kids are innocent,and have no fault in the way God gave them to me. I didn't ask for a special need child. I was given 2 because I'm patience,and I love them,and because it was time for me to get out of this marriage. Since my oldest child is almost done with school I'm waiting on that. Everything else can be fix such as having school bus drop off & pick up the small kids. I just have to make the best out of the situation,and start throwing stuff I don't need out. I'm doing a garage sale.[/quote']

Be safe and stay well, Mami.

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Be safe and stay well' date=' Mami.[/quote']

Thanks

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