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futuremrsparker    288

futuremrsparker
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So I was supposed to have surgery on May 2nd. I just got a call from my surgeons office. They want to reschedule it. I got really excited when they said they could do it next week, but now in sad because my work won't be able to accommodate that. It's looking like I may be having to wait even longer before this can happen unless a miracle occurs. When I say longer, I mean August or September. I'm SO depressed. I had everything in line and it was working out amazingly. It's just like everything else I try and do. Nothing ever just works out. Please pray for a miracle. I'll be so depressed if I have to wait months.

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buckeye_girl40    8

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I'm so sorry to hear this.... sending prayers and positive vibes your way.

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BBdoodle    483

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Isn't there any way your work can be without you? I know it is elective surgery and all but what would they do if it was a emergency -- they would have to deal with it right ??? I would speak to your boss and see if you could work something out. Don't give up !!!!

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La'Shaunda    3

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I pray everything works out for you....Good Luck and keep your head up, it will all work out...

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futuremrsparker    288

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Thanks so much, Everyone! And BBdoodle, that's my argument. If, heaven forbid, I end up out longer than planned, it would be running in to people's vacations anyway so they would hAVE to deal with it. It's more my coworkers complaining that is the problem. Technically they would be jut fine without me. If you've seen any of my other posts, my coworkers have been my biggest stress throughout this whole thing. Even my finances boss said his work will figure it out whenever I am to have this done. No problem at all.

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futuremrsparker    288

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Surgery next week!!! Eek! I'm so excited, but am already catching flack from my coworkers. I really need to just try and keep them out of my head and be excited for the changes coming. Thank you all for the prayers!

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futuremrsparker    288

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Yes, I did! :) my boss said she sees no reason in waiting and that they'll make do. My coworkers are already being really mean about it, but who needs them? Lol I have plenty of support at home, I don't need their anything. I appreciate all of you praying. God truly blessed me today!

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buckeye_girl40    8

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So glad you got things worked out.... congratulations and good luck on your journey to a healthier , happier you ! God Bless

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TinyMamiOf3kids    1,280

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So glad everything seems to be marching in the right direction

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      I am new here today... and only two weeks out from my sleeve surgery on the 23rd. I am amazed I have kept my calories down to 467 today so far... that leaves me almost 750 left for dinner and maybe a snack. This is going to be tough for two weeks... but I have to believe I can do it!
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    • Alisa_S

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. LeighaTR

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        I hope your surgery on Wednesday goes well. You will be able to do all sorts of new things as you find your new normal after surgery. I don't know this from experience yet, but I am seeing a lot of positive things from people who have had it done. Best of luck!

    • Alisa_S

      Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

    • CaseyP1011

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      Officially here for a long time, not just a good time💪
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