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I am a newbie here and would love to visit and meet up with site users and new friends who have either had or will have Gastric Bypass Surgery.

I was Scheduled for Surgery this month and then the Insurance Company decided I needed to do a 6 month Dr. Supervised Diet and Exercise course, after telling me in Aug it wasn't a requirement.

Frustrated because I now must meet a new $3000.00 deductible. Anybody else run into this issue?

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welcome

and oh that stinks. You have had to be so disappointed and the deductible is awful. I wish you the best. This sort of think is so frustrating. You will find yourself in good company with this group. Lots of support and info. Again Welcome.

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Thank you so much Vicki, frustrated to the max, but what can you do. I am glad to have found a support resource to come to. Thanks for the support and friendship.

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Omg..that sucks. This is sometimes a journey through a minefield.

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I am finding that out Debra. I will take it a day at atone, it's all I can do.

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Insurance is the worst part, I think. At least so far!

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Insurance is the worst part' date=' I think. At least so far![/quote']

I agree girl.

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How frustrating.....sorry to hear that. Was it something new they implemented? Many insurances are actually dropping that protocol, now. Stick with it, every pound lost before surgery means you reduce your surgery risk.

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No it actually was not a new requirement, but apparently when I called the benefits Dept in late Aug. they are not aware of the requirement or this gal I spoke with didn't know. I would have started right away had I known. I am down but not defeated.

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I just looked at the extra time given to me as additional "research time" and feel like I am going through this experience with a whole lot more knowledge.

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I just looked at the extra time given to me as additional "research time" and feel like I am going through this experience with a whole lot more knowledge.

Amen to that mrsblues. I agree 100%

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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