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I feel like such a jerk but I hate making dinner for the family right now :( I 6 days post op and I just want to take a huge bite of something and it makes me frustrated ok well damn it angry! I can't wait for my life to be a little normal again!

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make something low fat and low sugar that u can eat also. hope u feel better! :)

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What you are feeling is perfectly normal. course 6 days out I wasnt cooking anybody anything so kudos for that. I hit that stone wall about 2 months out and boy was I pissed. But for me it was going out to dinner after a ball game and all of them being able to eat whatever they wanted. Then had to remind myself... I made this decision, I am the one that is fat... and deal with it. It does get better. But I will say it time and time again... our minds are our own worst enemy. Hang in there honey!!!

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you can have fat free or low fat gravy or low fat cream of chicken Soup.< /p>

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I had to keep reminding myself I had days and years of eating good stuff whenever I wanted ... Waiting a few months until I could gain control wasn't going to kill me. It worked most days, and when it did not, I search for new clothes in magazines I could have never fit into.

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Don't feel angry. It's ok one day at a time.

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I feel like this often.. I make sure I have out what I am going to eat along with what I am making for my kids.. Then I tell them they can't finish their food/meal before me... That helps all of us...

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I totally understand what you are going through. My sister will tell me almost daily. I am not on a liquid diet you are. I am lucky that I don't have to cook for my family. I still do get mad at the things that are said. It ok to get mad that why we are here to listen and support you through it.

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I feel like this often.. I make sure I have out what I am going to eat along with what I am making for my kids.. Then I tell them they can't finish their food/meal before me... That helps all of us...

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