Hello. While this is the first time I've been on this web forum and starting the process to weight loss surgery I am not new to the process. About 10 years ago I went through the process of getting surgery but after a few months I believed that I could do it all by myself. There were times that I was able to but then I would put the weight back on plus much more! Then I would have family members pushing for me to have surgery and I felt like a five year old. It's like when you tell your children not to go into a certain room and instead of walking away they want to see what's behind the door. I just didn't want any one telling me what to do and even though it took a lot of soul searching I realized I need help. Trust me it's not easy for me to ask for help especially when it comes to my weight. Then this past January I hurt my knees and because of my weight they are not healing properly. Walking (especially hiking) and swimming are my favorite things to do for exercise but because of my knees I am unable to do them (which I miss a lot ). I guess I have always believed myself powerful in everything but ultimately I have realized I am not powerful in this. I need help and having surgery is a great tool to get me started. One funny thing has happened since I have come to the conclusion of having this surgery.....I have actually been watching what I eat, drinking Water instead of soda (well at least less soda), and I have completely stopped smoking. My sister said that this change in my behavior might be because this time I am ready and I am inclined to believe her.

I have my first of many appointments on November 1st and I am excited to meet the surgeon and his team.

Congrats on your decision. You will do great. I am almost 6 months post op. it has ups and downs but it was the best decision ever. Good luck!!

Welcome to the family! We all have hit our breaking points, the point to which we know we need help. You were just not ready before, and now you are! Congrats!

Welcome to the group. Asking for help & getting help is the 1st step to acknowledging you are ready for a life change.

I too was very successful at dieting but them would fall off track and gain it all back again. I would of had surgery years ago but I did not know insurance covered it in most cases. You first major step was to realize you need help, once you admit that it is cake after that !!! This surgery is a tool to help you help yourself. You work WITH the surgery and follow your doctor's insructions and ther is no way you will not be a success. It takes time, dedication and sensible eating habits and most importantly exercise. good luck on your journey !!

Hello. While this is the first time I've been on this web forum and starting the process to weight loss surgery I am not new to the process. About 10 years ago I went through the process of getting surgery but after a few months I believed that I could do it all by myself. There were times that I was able to but then I would put the weight back on plus much more! Then I would have family members pushing for me to have surgery and I felt like a five year old. It's like when you tell your children not to go into a certain room and instead of walking away they want to see what's behind the door. I just didn't want any one telling me what to do and even though it took a lot of soul searching I realized I need help. Trust me it's not easy for me to ask for help especially when it comes to my weight. Then this past January I hurt my knees and because of my weight they are not healing properly. Walking (especially hiking) and swimming are my favorite things to do for exercise but because of my knees I am unable to do them (which I miss a lot ). I guess I have always believed myself powerful in everything but ultimately I have realized I am not powerful in this. I need help and having surgery is a great tool to get me started. One funny thing has happened since I have come to the conclusion of having this surgery.....I have actually been watching what I eat' date=' drinking Water instead of soda (well at least less soda), and I have completely stopped smoking. My sister said that this change in my behavior might be because this time I am ready and I am inclined to believe her.

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Welcome

welcome to the boards... glad to see you here.

Thank you all for the welcomes I am looking forward to many conversation pre-op and post-op.

I had my surgery on 7-2-12 and it was the best decision. I also thought I could do it myself and now I know better.. You have to do it for yourself first before anyone else.. Good luck

Welcome and you have already started on a good road to this journey even pre op. Keep up the good work. You will find so much support and info here, Glad you are here,

Welcome to the forums!!

Welcome