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I feel so alone right now. I just got home yesterday, and my husband went into suegery this morning. we have a one year old that has been with my mom since I went in. so here I am at home with no husband, nor son. I don't think I have ever felt so helpless and sad like this. I can't be with my husband cuz I'm still in some pain, and I can't take care of my own son because he doesn't understand not to touch in mommy's tummy. grandma lives about 30 minutes away she feels more comfortable being at her house sitting here with me. I feel like I have no choice because she is helping me with him. yesterday when she left I didn't want to let go of my baby cried and cried and cried. I know I have to recover but I didn't want to recover by myself.

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Wishing you a speedy recovery. Don't worry you will have your boy in no time.

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Wishing you a speedy recovery. Don't worry you will have your boy in no time.

Thank you mami

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Aww! So sorry that you are by yourself--at least physically. We're all here for you on RNY Talk. I know it's not the same, though. Wishing you and your husband speedy recoveries in order to be back with your little one soon.

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Aww! So sorry that you are by yourself--at least physically. We're all here for you on RNY Talk. I know it's not the same' date=' though. Wishing you and your husband speedy recoveries in order to be back with your little one soon.[/quote']

Thank you. I know this if all for the best, but at the moment it sucks.

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This is the best time for you relax and get your healing on. As a mother of a 2 yr old I was sad but grateful I had my parents to take her for some time and my hubby worked. I was so lonely but I got to do things at my pace.

Wishing you a fast recovery and all the comfort in the world. Congrats to you and the hubby!

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This is the best time for you relax and get your healing on. As a mother of a 2 yr old I was sad but grateful I had my parents to take her for some time and my hubby worked. I was so lonely but I got to do things at my pace.

Wishing you a fast recovery and all the comfort in the world. Congrats to you and the hubby!

Thank you so much

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    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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