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Before and after surgery date nov. 7 2012..down 110 pounds...ive totally stalled and have gotten comfortable..need advice on this ..I know what to do..just dont do it. .excuses have crept in. Im proud but im not done losing and need my motivation back...

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Before and after surgery date nov. 7 2012..down 110 pounds...ive totally stalled and have gotten comfortable..need advice on this ..I know what to do..just dont do it. .excuses have crept in. Im proud but im not done losing and need my motivation back...

You look fantastic. I think you need to take a long hard look at your before pics and think of who that person was. Remember how you felt and then just get out and take control. You can do it!

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Look at how beautiful you are! That would motivate me. 110 lbs is awesome!

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Wow. I had to go back and look at your "before" pic again because you don't even look like the same person. You need to do the same.

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Very beautiful!! Congratulations on the loss!!

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Wow your beautiful

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Wow your beautiful

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You look absolutely fantastic. Here is the reality of it all. This is when the rubber meets the road and we have to realize this is one of those times when we have to make ourselves do what we know is right. It's tough to do I know this very well but after we had our surgery we all swore to ourselves we were never going back. This is one of those times when we get weak (and we all do) and have to conform to what is right. It's the difference between caving in and reverting back to a lifestyle that will kill us mentally and gain weight or grow stronger and conquer the old ways and demons. I think that you have done an absolutely amazing job with losing 110 pounds and I totally believe you can conquer this momentary weakness. If you have been slipping into some old patterns you might want to go back to liquids for a week and a lean piece of meat and veggies every couple of nights. This will help to get the carb monster off your back and kick start some weight loss. One day I will probably be sitting where you are right now and want you to remind me of the advice I gave you. It is all part of this journey and to expect that this wouldn't or couldn't happen is naive to ones growth. Getting past these hurtles is what strenthens us. Good luck and I know you can do it! :) :)

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Thank you all so much..I appreciate your advice..just being back on this site helps me get back into my positive mind frame. .when I first got my surgery I was on everyday...thanks..Tommorow is a new day..

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Listen to Beachlover! Your doing great, only a temporary slip.

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Correct me if I'm wrong, but it seems that how to do it is not the problem. It's why to do it. When you're fat, the reason is obvious. With a 100+ weight loss, the reason is less obvious. One thing you might try is this: Find a site on the web where you can enter information about yourself and then find out how long you have left to live. Do this 1st for your current situation, then do it again for where you want to be. Just a guess, but chances are you'll probably add 5-10 years to your life. That may turn the tide for you.

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I love you said that. .it made so much sense..altough I still have 60 pounds to go..the why to do it has changed..im still big..but attractive..and happy..I was happy before..but the settling kind of happy...I want to keep going..and you opened my eyes to a new question..thank you so much..really

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How far are you from goal? I think you look awesome! Maybe you need to adjust the goal- you really look amazing!!

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Im 230..lol..I only wanted to be about 180 170..Nothing perfect. .thank you..i still see the same girl to be honest..sometimes. .

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Before and after surgery date nov. 7 2012..down 110 pounds...ive totally stalled and have gotten comfortable..need advice on this ..I know what to do..just dont do it. .excuses have crept in. Im proud but im not done losing and need my motivation back...

U have done a great job!!! U are Very beautiful....

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