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Ok I'm glad to see I'm not the only one noticing some changes in my Lady Business! It seems like as my thighs are shrinking I'm getting quite a breeze down there when I move around! i keep feeling things moving around in ways I never noticed before. Maybe I need to buy some smaller panties? Also sex with hubby has been much easier and more enjoyable since there isn't so much fat in the way.

pre-surgery weight 325; surgery date 2/28/2013; surgery weight 307; 8 weeks past-op weight 281.4; 12 weeks post-op 274; 4 month post-op 266.2; 5 month post-op 262.6; 6 month post-op 253.2

It's amazing how different sex feels already!! Great job on your weight loss!

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I'll just be happy when I can trim down there again. I admit' date=' I am moisturizing that area with a firming lotion. I hope it helps.[/quote']

What lotion are you using?? I have thought about that but worried it might be too sensitive!

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after 2 homebirths and my son having a 15 inch head i dont worry too much about being saggy! but cosmetic surgery can be done on any part of the body! so dont stress too much.

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I finally broke down and told my hubby about my concern. His response "you let me worry about your vagina, I know what it needs". Lmao...so glad to have such a a great man.

Too funny, but ya gotta luv that man!!!!

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I've lost 71 lbs. And its funny but when I first started noticing the inches gone sex just freaking hurt. Lol I felt bone on bone. I think u just need to get used to it. I ask my hubby and he said I feel it too but it feels great. Lol men.

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I know that I'm not supposed to post in here, but I'm going to anyway. This is a very interesting topic. As I'm sure you ladies know,or maybe not, us men have trouble with fat buidling up on the mound. For some reason I never thought about women having the same problem. It's nice to hear that some of you can see your vaj jay again, that gives me hope for being able to see my man stuff again someday. Lol. Good luck ladies. An attractive vaj jay is important to most men. Feel free to post before and after pics. Just kidding.

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Lol mine was the same way but as you lose your jay jay will too. My pooch is now mostly skin it will be saggy no lie but you will feel your pelvis i was like wtf? But its better than the pooch and awkward sex pre losing weight. Hang in there make sure to do kegels and ab excercises to help lift up the jay !

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I know that I'm not supposed to post in here' date=' but I'm going to anyway. This is a very interesting topic. As I'm sure you ladies know,or maybe not, us men have trouble with fat buidling up on the mound. For some reason I never thought about women having the same problem. It's nice to hear that some of you can see your vaj jay again, that gives me hope for being able to see my man stuff again someday. Lol. Good luck ladies. An attractive vaj jay is important to most men. Feel free to post before and after pics. Just kidding.[/quote']

Lmao...thanks for chiming in!!

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Lol mine was the same way but as you lose your jay jay will too. My pooch is now mostly skin it will be saggy no lie but you will feel your pelvis i was like wtf? But its better than the pooch and awkward sex pre losing weight. Hang in there make sure to do kegels and ab excercises to help lift up the jay !

Omg...I have a pelvic bone?? YAy for me! Sex is different and I have noticed can go much deeper! :)

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I'm 8 weeks post op' date=' 43 lbs lost, and I have definitely noticed a difference. The mound feels less cushiony and outer lips slightly deflated. I was talking to my fiancé about it and he said he liked it better before the weight loss. What?!? Then he followed up with "I do like that I can go deeper now." He's also been losing weight and I told him that between my weight loss and his, it's like he gained a full inch. So I'm not complaining. Lol[/quote']

Every 35 pounds a man loses,he gains an inch in length.

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Omg....I am putting hubby on diet! Lol.

Lmbo!!! My hubby gained 60 pounds in our first yr of marriage and he is 6'4. I could barely breathe during sex. I'm only 5'1...lol! He has loss the weight and big difference in our sex life. He has more energy and everything else. He is still trying to lose 50 more pounds. I am excited to see how it will be once I lose about 50 pds. Lol

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Love this topic! I havent really seen her in forever but cant wait to see her again! Didn't think about any of this.. surgery 10/25 cant wait to say "hey girlllll!!"

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Down 118 pounds so far she still looks spectacular and everything is working as it should.

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