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I waited for what seemed like 9 long months to have the sleeve. By the time I went through all of the hoops of Dr appointments, psych eval, weight loss seminar and whatever else, I was so excited to have this done!! Well I was sleeved on 9/12 and have lost 37 lbs. Starting out at 325 I knew I finally had the tool to make this work. Nothing hardly makes me sick and I have been on regular foods. Now all of a sudden, I just want junk food. What has happened to me? Is nothing going to work for me? I am tired of being fat!!!!

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Is it period time? LOL It is for me and I have had two little pieces of chocolate and man did they save my life. All joking aside I feel you. I crave anything that is fatty. I mean anything. But we can do this right?! We got this! We aren't going to be perfect! So that being said- we still can't eat what we could! It's a struggle for me to even eat 1000 calories a day and if I eat it all in chocolate one day- SO BE IT! But I think you are doing great- just know you aren't alone. Hang in there- you will do it. I think that book recommendation sounds really good- I am definitely going to look in to it.

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I recommend "The End of Overeating.". It speaks to how the food manufacturers intentionally manipulate the sugar, fat, and salt content in foods, in order to trigger a chemical response in your brain that is identical to the one caused by heroine or cocaine. It played a huge roll in my changed relationship with foods....particularly processed "junk" foods.

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Old habits are hard to break. I am 7 weeks out and for the first 5 weeks I had no interest in food. Now I am starting to think about "bad" food from time to time. I don't keep any in the house, that helps. I do have several sugar free options on hand. I have had a couple of bites of "bad" food, and so far just a bite seems to satisfy me. I am brainwashed to believe that eating a large quantity of "bad" food would probably make me sick, so that is saving me for now.

What are you craving? Anything specific?

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I didn't crave junk food per say, but I was just very hungry all week. It was my TOM though, so I say that is why. I'm not normally hungry so I can only relate it to that.

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I crave everything isnt good for me. I have been so by the book until lately. It really p*#ses me off!!!

Remember, you are trying to change years, if not a lifetime of bad eating habits. The longer you go with good habits the more natural they will seem.

What are you craving? Is it stuff like chips & chocolate, or more like pastas & breads?

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I had a moment this evening when watching TV. TGIF had this ad for a sale on juicy steak and jumbo coconut shrimp. Weird part is I was kind of disgusted by the dripping steak, but I twinged on the shrimp. We used to have those all the time in prior life. It was just a moment though and was gone from my conscious just as fast as it entered. I thought: this is strange. I haven't really been anything but on plan, even my thoughts. No trouble whatsoever. So why are the darn twinges sneaking back in??? Maybe there is no answer to that one. LOL!

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I had a moment this evening when watching TV. TGIF had this ad for a sale on juicy steak and jumbo coconut shrimp. Weird part is I was kind of disgusted by the dripping steak, but I twinged on the shrimp. We used to have those all the time in prior life. It was just a moment though and was gone from my conscious just as fast as it entered. I thought: this is strange. I haven't really been anything but on plan, even my thoughts. No trouble whatsoever. So why are the darn twinges sneaking back in??? Maybe there is no answer to that one. LOL!

I will often order an appetizer of shrimp cocktail, when we go out, and have that for my meal. Its usually 4 decent sized shrimp, and is always plenty to fill me up! AND....shrimp has next to no calories! YAY! :)

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A packet of pretzel M&M's and I had a staredown last night at the drugstore checkout stand. I won, but it wasn't easy. I miss crunchy foods!

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A packet of pretzel M&M's and I had a staredown last night at the drugstore checkout stand. I won' date=' but it wasn't easy. I miss crunchy foods![/quote']

There are edemame (spelling) in the produce section by where the salad nuts and stuff are. They are roasted and slightly salted. They are high in Protein. I bring a 1/4 cup into the movies with me!!! I just chew them up real good.

I LOVE the crunchy stuff!!!

Also I take a slice of american cheese- cut it into 6 smaller pieces and microwave for about a minute. It's like a cheese-it!!

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Remember' date=' you are trying to change years, if not a lifetime of bad eating habits. The longer you go with good habits the more natural they will seem.

What are you craving? Is it stuff like chips & chocolate, or more like pastas & breads?

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I crave chips and doughnuts. Ugh, not such a good thing to crave.

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I waited for what seemed like 9 long months to have the sleeve. By the time I went through all of the hoops of Dr appointments' date=' psych eval, weight loss seminar and whatever else, I was so excited to have this done!! Well I was sleeved on 9/12 and have lost 37 lbs. Starting out at 325 I knew I finally had the tool to make this work. Nothing hardly makes me sick and I have been on regular foods. Now all of a sudden, I just want junk food. What has happened to me? Is nothing going to work for me? I am tired of being fat!!!![/quote']

R u eating enough of the food we r suppose to be eating? When I start to want "bad" foods it means I forgot to eat enough food, I have a meal. 4oz. And I am usually good. I use sugar free popcycles as sort of a fun food. I am also going to support groups and am taking my food addiction real serious, I am addicted to sugar. My nut says she has never seen a single person who tries to eat their trigger food in a controlled way not regain their weight. Not a single person. And with that I say, pass the PROTIEN please. :-)))

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I crave jelly-bellys :(

Gosh I miss them

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      1. Selina333

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    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. LeighaTR

        I hope your surgery on Wednesday goes well. You will be able to do all sorts of new things as you find your new normal after surgery. I don't know this from experience yet, but I am seeing a lot of positive things from people who have had it done. Best of luck!

    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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      Officially here for a long time, not just a good time💪
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