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This has been my theme song since November. Today, I finally got my surgery date!!!! Oct. 12th.

It's finally going to happen. What a relief. Gonna need a new theme song now.

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CONGRATS! It's about time! It ill be here before you know it! :)

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congrats what insurance co and what took so long

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I have Cigna. The nut's office gave me an appt with the wrong person - had to wait 6 weeks for a new appt.

Finished my 6 months nut sessions in June. The psych was done in May, so that was out of the way.

They did not contact me til the First week in August about getting a new request from my PCP and my eval from the nut needed to be re-done ( because of the 6 weeks they took to look at my stuff to submit ).

One week later, they submitted to Cigna and 3 days after that I was approved.

I went to the surgeon's office the last week of August and then it got nuts. I had to get a clearance from my nephrologist. Luckily, I'd had my appointment for the day before and asked for a clearance letter, just in case. And they wanted a new clearance letter from my PCP. So, another visit to the PCP to get the new clearance.

At the meeting, they tell me I need to get clearance from a pulmonologist because I have sleep apnea. I got an appt for 2 weeks ago. After that clearance, they told me I needed a clearance from a cardiologist and to get a chest x-ray ( had that done at my annual physical on 7/7, so I was one step ahead of them). Got that clearance this past Monday (17th). I no sooner get home and they tell me they want a copy of my sleep test.

I, at that time, wrote a scathing email and said in effect...I think you are doing whatever you can to postpone giving me a date.

Of course the administrator blames the nurse, etc. I called my PCP to tell him what is going on.

I then get an email stating they received my cardiology clearance ( of course they did; I emailed it myself ) . They wanted the info about the sleep test: where done, when, what doctor and his phone number.

Yesterday I get a call that they ( surgeon's office ) contacted the sleep center and they would be sending over a copy of the study to the surgeon's office.

Then I get an email to call the administrator.

She tells me my date is Oct. 12th; I have a 7 hr class on the 10th; have to take some online course and take the 2 tests, print them out and bring to the class and get more bloodwork ( the work done by my PCP is now over 30 days old).

I should mention that every clearance (except the psych eval and the cardiac - I sent by email) all "somehow" was not received even though the fax machine is right there on her desk. So I spent time calling the dr's offices to re-fax the clearances.

I think they should give you a list stating what needs to be done - at one time, so you can call that same day and get appointments. Not this one at a time garbage.

I was thinking that my surgery was going to be in June, boy was I wrong!

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Doesn't it seem like they just make things up as they go along? I was REALLY lucky and all went pretty smoothly for me, but geesh! Some of the stories i've read on here! Crazy!!!

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    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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