How long did you wait to "seal the deal" post surgery? My hubby thinks im not ready but.....im pretty sure I AM lol

After my hysterectomy I asked the obgyn how soon we could "seal the deal". He asked me how fast I could drive home.

Just take it slow and listen to your body.

Sealed the deal on day 11 ; )

Woot!

if you're feeling it, you're ready lol besides, it makes you happier & more energetic, so it is healthy for you, too! and not a bad way to burn some extra calories.. lol

Mine was a little farther out ..I had a hematoma at an incision site just moving really hurt..I found cowgirl to be easier though for me because then I could control the "deal"

I do have an infection on my one of my incisions - is that the same as a hematoma?

I am def ready - he agreed and it was sealed hehehe.... i can say it was uncomfortable at times.. cant wait til im 100% feeling better

I do have an infection on my one of my incisions - is that the same as a hematoma?

I am def ready - he agreed and it was sealed hehehe.... i can say it was uncomfortable at times.. cant wait til im 100% feeling better

No infection is not the same..a hematoma is formed when you have a tear and a blood clot forms. It was incredibly painful and eventually dissolved at 8 weeks.. One of my internal stitches ripped open when I sneezed and a small hematoma formed. I was very happy when the site finally felt better.

3 days. No problems.

3 days. No problems.

Wow!!!! There is no way after 3 dats for me lol

At least wait til you're out of the recovery room Badum-Dump!

All kidding aside, just take it slow and remember that there are other positions other than man-on-top and other forms that produce desirable results. And if you're a sweetheart and just not ready perhaps you would satisfyy his needs without a, um, "full monty".

3 days. No problems.

3 days for me too!!!

At least wait til you're out of the recovery room Badum-Dump!

All kidding aside, just take it slow and remember that there are other positions other than man-on-top and other forms that produce desirable results. And if you're a sweetheart and just not ready perhaps you would satisfyy his needs without a, um, "full monty".

his needs??? what about mine? LOL what if the girl is the randy one?

After my hysterectomy I asked the obgyn how soon we could "seal the deal". He asked me how fast I could drive home.

Just take it slow and listen to your body.

Are you kidding? My surgeon made me wait 6 weeks (after hysterectomy)!! I didn't 'quite' make it that far, but that was excruciating. I'm hoping just as soon as I feel better we'll figure something out.

I'm 5 weeks out and tonight was my second try at it. I have to admit didn't feel too good! I was uncomfortable as much as I really wanted it! Guess I wasn't ready !

At 7 weeks its like surgery never happened!! Woot woot!!