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Has anyone's significant other admitted they find them more attractive after the weight was lost?

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Once upon a time I did lose 60 lbs on jenny craig's diet, and my hubby was absolutely annoying with all his compliments and flirtiness. I look forward to that again, believe it or not! LOL! When you feel attractive, others will find you more attractive-I truly believe this!

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My husband grabs my arm all the time to look at me and tell me I am "hot". I appreciate the comments and love that he notices.

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And it works for the men too. My wife says I am sexy. I am a hunk, not a chunk.

And we have been making the dogs leave the bedroom a whole lot more often - Hey, no one needs an audience that can not appreciate my best moves!!

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Wow-hearing this gives me hope! I am so looking forward to my husband complimenting me on my hot, new body and trying to get me into bed all of the time! Woohoo!

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My husband said today that he loved my body before but since I am so much happier, that's all the better for him! I love good men.

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My husband loved/chased after me before, and it's MUCH WORSE now, LOL!! We're both sleevers, and I know from personal experience that yes, I definitely loved him and his body before, but both are so much more fun now! We've talked about it a lot--it's a combination of better energy, better mood, better self-image, more confidence, plus from a purely mechanical perspective, we just seem to work together better, if you get my drift. ;)

So yeah, it's something to look forward to, for sure.

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Once upon a time I did lose 60 lbs on jenny craig's diet' date=' and my hubby was absolutely annoying with all his compliments and flirtiness. I look forward to that again, believe it or not! LOL! When you feel attractive, others will find you more attractive-I truly believe this![/quote']

So true about others connecting with your confidence. I'm down about 40 lbs in 9 weeks and, while I was confident before, I'm so much more comfortable in my skin and am noticing people taking more notice. As for sex, I'm slightly envious of you marrieds...as a single girl who's not trying to sleep with everyone she sees I'm starting to feel quite frustrated!! :)

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Thanks everybody! Hubby still calls me beautiful but I want to be called SEXY again! Sleeve is 25th and I can't wait to start my new life :)

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When you weigh 334 lbs sex is not fun, it is a job and one that would wear me out! I am looking forward to making up for lost time with my wonderful husband, he has stuck by me when I didn't want him to touch me because I was embarrassed of how big I was, I have told him that I hope I wear him out wanting sex more now and he said "Honey, you just go right ahead and try".

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