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Cudlyqt....i am so sorry you're going thru all this. I haven't had surg but wanted to send a hug your way. Take care and it can only get better from here!

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I promise it does get better we all had the same thoughts what did I do. Just keep focused on why you did it in the first place boyfriends can be replaced giving yourself

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Sorry hate my phone. Giving yourself a healthy life is the most responsible thing you can do.

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I'm sorry you guys are having a miserable time right now! Its hard when you come on the boards and see the people who breeze through this without any pain or other issues and you wonder why you feel so crappy. The good news is that it does get better! I will be 3 weeks out tomorrow and last Monday I was wondering how the heck I was going to go back to work on July 2nd but, by the end of the week I was feeling so much better that I honestly think I may have been able to go back next week.

What's harder for me is not the physical feelings but the amount of work and planning that I need to do to eat. Its counting the Protein, the Water intake, trying different foods for pureed but some dont sit well... challenges for me. Having to open my meds and putting it into yogurt or pudding is no fun either. In the end, is it worth it? For me, an unqualified YES! I'm now at the lowest weight I have been at in the past 10 years and knowing that its gone for good - well woo hoo to me!

You guys will get better, I promise!

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Gotta say I feel 100% better today than yesterday.....I am now 5 whopping days post op. The miserableness of it all has worn off and I do feel better. Felt so much better last evening that I thought I'd ride with my hubby to his office to pick up his lap top so he can work a little today. BAD IDEA!!!....Was about a 40 minute round trip, bouncing across the concrete roads of Houston. I thought the gas bubbles were over......well, they were after that little trip!!!

So, things I've learned thus far.......

1) every day is better than the one before in the acute recovery phase

2) if you have gas problems, go for a ride in the truck on a bouncy road......in addition to walking - no more gas!!!

3) my son will take my ticket to Van Halen tonight and I will HAPPILY take the t-shirt.......in a smaller size!!

4) sleep is your bestest friend when it comes to changing your out look!

Heal well my fellow sleevers, for tomorrow is another day!!!

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      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. LeighaTR

        I hope your surgery on Wednesday goes well. You will be able to do all sorts of new things as you find your new normal after surgery. I don't know this from experience yet, but I am seeing a lot of positive things from people who have had it done. Best of luck!

    • Alisa_S

      On day 4 of the 2 week liquid pre-op diet. Surgery scheduled for June 11th.
      Soooo I am coming to a realization
      of something and I'm not sure what to do about it. For years the only thing I've enjoyed is eating. We rarely do anything or go anywhere and if we do it always includes food. Family comes over? Big family dinner! Go camping? Food! Take a short ride or trip? Food! Holiday? Food! Go out of town for a Dr appointment? Food! When we go to a new town we don't look for any attractions, we look for restaurants we haven't been to. Heck, I look forward to getting off work because that means it's almost supper time. Now that I'm drinking these pre-op shakes for breakfast, lunch, and supper I have nothing to look forward to.  And once I have surgery on June 11th it'll be more of the same shakes. Even after pureed stage, soft food stage, and finally regular food stage, it's going to be a drastic change for the rest of my life. I'm giving up the one thing that really brings me joy. Eating. How do you cope with that? What do you do to fill that void? Wow. Now I'm sad.
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      1. summerseeker

        Life as a big person had limited my life to what I knew I could manage to do each day. That was eat. I hadn't anything else to look forward to. So my eating choices were the best I could dream up. I planned the cooking in managable lots in my head and filled my day with and around it.

        Now I have a whole new big, bigger, biggest, best days ever. I am out there with those skinny people doing stuff i could never have dreamt of. Food is now an after thought. It doesn't consume my day. I still enjoy the good home cooked food but I eat smaller portions. I leave food on my plate when I am full. I can no longer hear my mother's voice saying eat it all up, ther are starving children in Africa who would want that!

        I still cook for family feasts, I love cooking. I still do holidays but I have changed from the All inclusive drinking and eating everything everyday kind to Self catering accommodation. This gives me the choice of cooking or eating out as I choose. I rarely drink anymore as I usually travel alone now and I feel I need to keep aware of my surroundings.

        I don't know at what point my life expanded, was it when I lost 100 pounds? Was it when I left my walking stick at home ? Was it when I said yes to an outing instead of finding an excuse to stay home ? i look back at my last five years and wonder how loosing weight has made such a difference. Be ready to amaze yourself.

        BTW, the liquid diet sucks, one more day and you are over the worst. You can do it.

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