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No one ever needs to know your name

I have been Big Guy, Big Fella, Big Boy (mostly the English), Gordito (only the spanish), I started wearing Big Dog shirts (because tall and fat stores sold them) and become "The Big Dog", now I am fairly addicted to Big Daddy tshirts...so i've become..."Big Daddy".

Most of our clothes doubly nicely as a tent or sleeping bag for our loved ones.

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So I gave this some thought.

1. We understand that being fat does not mean that we are dirty, smelly, lazy, gross, or slobs. Sadly it is how we are judged by some people, but not by fellow plus size floks.

2. We have a lot of compassion for others who are not considered 'cool' or 'beautiful' by society standards.

3. We can show our true beauty through our actions and words, rather than misleading looks.

4. We have a great online board that is full of wonderful, helpful and compassionate people.

5. Most people will not start fights with us in fear of getting their butt kicked.

6. Big girls have smaller chance of getting raped.

7. We are better cooks.

8. We don't gain attention from men by dressing like sluts, well most of us anyway.

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You can hide things on your person or even in your FUPA.

LOL. I did this JUST today. I stayed up too late last night on the computer, so I went to take an afternoon nap in my car at work. I hid the keys in the waistband of my skirt. On the way back, I was in the restroom and I looked in the mirror. You couldn't see the keys. I was thinking to myself, "LOL. how am I gonna hide these when I'm skinnier?"

Ok. Let's see. You have never embarrassed/made angry your significant other by asking "Do these jeans/pants/skirt make me look fat?"

Oh. and I'm off to look at the list to see what FUPA means. LOL

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Oh, I thought of two more:

Our pantries are more interesting than others....

And

We are better cooks! :biggrin1:

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LMAO I thought you posted that our panties are more interesting than others,

well that too! I Have to find my dang glasses.

LMAO!! HA HA, well they are bigger than most, but can't imagine them being more interesting........ roflmao.

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