I can't wait til the day I can go to a movie theater and not have to wedge in sideways! I can't wait to have any choice of Halloween costume I want (sexy French maid?) instead of having to be a pumpkin or witch. What is it you can't wait for?

No, Dooter! Tibbie is getting pink. I'm getting green!

Furby' date=' that's so funny! I mean, I'm sorry you got scared but now that you're safe, that's a great story.[/quote']

I laugh now, but at the time not so funny. They even caught pictures of me freaking out. LOL. It was fun to say I at least tried

Oh I love this Thread! I could go on for days.

For starters:

*Shop for cute clothes that actually fit right, on the normal side.

*Not mind seeing myself in the mirror.

*Have sex w my husband without feeling like a whale.

*Feel pretty.

*Or I'll even take feeling human.

*Play with my kids like it ain't no thang. Hehe

*Have more than a couple items that fit, and actually choosing something nice from my closet vs. Reluctantly grabbing " the men's tshirt that doesn't hang to my elbows or have a grease stain.

*Feel human. Wait did I say that already?

*normal. Sized. Bra. One that doesn't have 3" wide straps to hold all the weight and keep me from wearing anything outside of tshirts.

* get off my anti depressants.

* feel good.

That's it for now. In no particular order.

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I'm glad I started this thread BC it set our goals right in sight...

I'm glad I started this thread BC it set our goals right in sight...

Yup. I want to one day put on my husbands pants! Or better yet...my son's!! (asking too much?

To get on an airplane and not worry about where my seat was and not having to ask for the seatbelt extender ?!!!!! And being able to use my traytable because my stomach won't be on the way!!!!!!

Yes! I hate trying to sit on the plane and not flow over onto the other person.

Yes to everything above. I really want to go horseback riding again. And be able to play lacrosse with the girls I coach. Also, be able to mo e between my students' desks and not worry that they are laughing at my fat bum. I really would live to look forward to getting dressed every day and I can't wait to not think about food all the time. I really hope a lot of my physical pain and exhaustion from lupus goes away. I will love it when people I haven't seen for a long time look surprised to see me. Thanks for getting me psyched.

And play on a swing. I've missed that feeling of freedom that comes from swinging back and forth.

All of the above plus:

*Being able to climb Koko Head (Hawaii)

*Energy to do things instead of sit on my *a-hem* all day

*learn to canoe paddle and join my kids' canoe club (too afraid I'll sink the canoe now)

*not having my child be embarrassed about what I look like (sad,yeah, but true)

I love all you all said! fitting in seats and not having to panic inside as to IF you will fit... buying clothes because you LOVE them not grumbling about why they think big ladies don't like cute.... and being healthy my biggest goal of all... and then there is this...when my oldest daughter was a teen I asked her "do I look like a baby whale in this outfit?" and her reply was 'are you suppose to look like a baby whate in it" so I look forward to someday SOON asking my grand-daughter the same question and having her reply "oh grandma you're so silly you can't look like a whale"

I'm looking forward to getting on the super man roller coaster at six flags with my son.. Urrrrrr I haven't been on it with him since he was 5, he is 17 now.. I can't wait to feel healthy and not tired all the time.. I can't wait to feel "normal" again!!

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I look forward to:

-being healthy

-sitting on the same swing as my son

-fitting in an airplane seat

-living the rest of my life!

Same ththings; sit in a stadium chair without my inner thigh killing me to keep my legs together; cross my legs comfortably and effortlessly;

Great ones ladies... Here's mine. A little bit forward, but hey, that's me. I can't wait till the day my husband can carry me off to the bedroom. All those romance novels got me ruined

To have children.