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Are There Any Single Sleevers Out There..

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Newly single, newly sleeved, New me .. I am looking for other single sleevers out there to talk about single life, before during and after the sleeve. Maybe a place were us singles can come together and talk about whatever who knows maybe Someone can find love.. In a loveless world. So if you are single and out there lets hear from you.. :P

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  • Ah, great idea. My M.O. In the past has been to lose weight, pick up a loser, gain weight, drop the loser, repeat. Uggggggg, hopefully now I can drop that behavior and feel like I can offer a guy mo

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    i was single but one year post op I got married to the love of my life Oh how life has changed

  • I am single and have pretty much been single my whole life except when I had my daughter, couldn't do that alone lol. I found it hard to let someone else like me if I didn't like me so I pretty much

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Lol not exactly the look i was going for with my headshot but that could explain a few things

I think that was supposed to be a good thing :)

It was a good thing. Think masculine, sexy, good on a guitar and good with animals.

It was a good thing. Think masculine' date=' sexy, good on a guitar and good with animals.[/quote']

Ok i can take that :) lol i knew it wasnt meant as a bad thing :) thank you

I live in houston <img src='http://www.bariatricpal.com/public/style_emoticons/<#EMO_DIR#>/smile.png' class='bbc_emoticon' alt=':)' /> yea I totally understand I've struggled with dating since getting to goal as well

Houston here too, just sleeved 8/20. I thought being in a relationship on top of all this would be too much. Want to focus on the weight loss but with weddings, family events, holidays on there way I'm dreading the when are you going to settle down questions. I feel like single and 32 is just not ok for some peeps. I still feel so young still.

Houston here too' date=' just sleeved 8/20. I thought being in a relationship on top of all this would be too much. Want to focus on the weight loss but with weddings, family events, holidays on there way I'm dreading the when are you going to settle down questions. I feel like single and 32 is just not ok for some peeps. I still feel so young still.[/quote']

My family stopped asking those questions when I told them I would settle down when I stop traveling and I have no plans to stop any time soon.

I've traveled all over the USA and a couple different countries! but I still have many places to see!

My family stopped asking those questions when I told them I would settle down when I stop traveling and I have no plans to stop any time soon.

I've traveled all over the USA and a couple different countries! but I still have many places to see!

Nice, I also love to travel. Try to take one international trip a year. I think I will steal your line!! Where are you? Where are you wanting to go next?

Nice' date=' I also love to travel. Try to take one international trip a year. I think I will steal your line!! Where are you? Where are you wanting to go next?[/quote']

I live in California. I'm debating on Italy, Australia and Fiji next year... So for sure one of them it's just going to depend but Australia may win because I have friends in Melbourne and Brisbane so no hotel cost! But I do want to go back to Greece and conquer the 3 mile incline of steps! I only made it half way last time.

Where do you want to go?

I live in California. I'm debating on Italy' date=' Australia and Fiji next year... So for sure one of them it's just going to depend but Australia may win because I have friends in Melbourne and Brisbane so no hotel cost! But I do want to go back to Greece and conquer the 3 mile incline of steps! I only made it half way last time.

Where do you want to go?[/quote']

If you decide on Italy, and you are interested in going on a tour to Tuscany and Umbria, let me know. A group of us are going July 19th for about 12 days. It's a really diverse group — so far, there are two straight couples, one gay couple, and three straight single girls. Most of the group doesn't know each other. We just started putting the trip together two days ago, so I'm sure we will have several more folks join us. You can reserve a place for $300, but the balance doesn't have to be paid until mid-May. If its something that you're the least bit interested in, just let me know, and I'll send you the website to check out.

I've spent a lot of time in Europe, but I'm really excited about being there in a completely different body. I hope I'm at a point where the walking and steps don't bother me like they have in the past.

If you decide on Italy' date=' and you are interested in going on a tour to Tuscany and Umbria, let me know. A group of us are going July 19th for about 12 days. It's a really diverse group — so far, there are two straight couples, one gay couple, and three straight single girls. Most of the group doesn't know each other. We just started putting the trip together two days ago, so I'm sure we will have several more folks join us. You can reserve a place for 300, but the balance doesn't have to be paid until mid-May. If its something that you're the least bit interested in, just let me know, and I'll send you the website to check out.

I've spent a lot of time in Europe, but I'm really excited about being there in a completely different body. I hope I'm at a point where the walking and steps don't bother me like they have in the past.[/quote']

I'll let you know! The main part of Italy I want to visit is southern due to heritage. But ya never know! Thanks for the info!

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What a great idea for a thread!

Ahh. Well I'm sure eventually your luck will change!

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It is' date=' but I've had no luck lol[/quote']

Still no luck? Why do you think you're still single?

For me, it's partly by choice. I turn down a lot if dates due to my schedule. I think I'm ready to get back out there. Now though! I've noticed that as the weight comes off, the happier and more confident I am. I seem to draw people to me now instead of pushing them away.

Weird thing is that I finally met someone who embraces the bigger me now that I'm loosing on BBPeople.com He is adorable, and likes me for who I am, but now as I loose weight, will he still want me????? What a deal, huh?

Weird thing is that I finally met someone who embraces the bigger me now that I'm loosing on BBPeople.com He is adorable' date=' and likes me for who I am, but now as I loose weight, will he still want me????? What a deal, huh?[/quote'] what is BBPeople.com? I have never heard of this site.

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