Newly single, newly sleeved, New me .. I am looking for other single sleevers out there to talk about single life, before during and after the sleeve. Maybe a place were us singles can come together and talk about whatever who knows maybe Someone can find love.. In a loveless world. So if you are single and out there lets hear from you..

Yeah well that's been my experience. Lol. I'm always too tall. Or the really short guys chase me. I'm not a tree to climb. Lol.

Yeah well that's been my experience. Lol. I'm always too tall. Or the really short guys chase me. I'm not a tree to climb. Lol.

Lol I'm six feet even and I like tall women but not over 6'2 lol

Lol I'm six feet even and I like tall women but not over 6'2 lol

Do heels count? Lol. And let me clarify another item...where are you located? I guarantee its not florida!! Haha. It's just hard for women.

Do heels count? Lol. And let me clarify another item...where are you located? I guarantee its not florida!! Haha. It's just hard for women.

I live in houston yea I totally understand I've struggled with dating since getting to goal as well

Single in Chicago. I actually ended a seven-year relationship a few months before my surgery. It would have been convenient to have someone help me schlep stuff and what not, but he was such a negative person in my life that frankly I'd rather face the whole process alone! I see my post-sleeve time as a chance to recover from the surgery and the relationship--not in any big hurry to date again!

Single in Chicago. I actually ended a seven-year relationship a few months before my surgery. It would have been convenient to have someone help me schlep stuff and what not' date=' but he was such a negative person in my life that frankly I'd rather face the whole process alone! I see my post-sleeve time as a chance to recover from the surgery and the relationship--not in any big hurry to date again![/quote']

Hey there welcome to the club

Ugh dating.... Lol I'm only two weeks out from the surgery... But dating hasn't ever been easy or hard... Easy to get dates, problem is (and I don't mean all men are like this) men seem to like dating more than one person at a time. I just refuse to deal with it and I walk.... I've never been one to deal with lying or cheating because I'm better than that. I'd rather be alone.

We shall see how this stuff goes after the losing process.... Who knows.

Ugh dating.... Lol I'm only two weeks out from the surgery... But dating hasn't ever been easy or hard... Easy to get dates' date=' problem is (and I don't mean all men are like this) men seem to like dating more than one person at a time. I just refuse to deal with it and I walk.... I've never been one to deal with lying or cheating because I'm better than that. I'd rather be alone.

We shall see how this stuff goes after the losing process.... Who knows.[/quote']

Hello welcome and yes some guys (I'm awesome) give us a bad name lol good luck with your weight loss

Hello welcome and yes some guys (I'm awesome) give us a bad name lol good luck with your weight loss

Thanks.

I live in houston yea I totally understand I've struggled with dating since getting to goal as well

I'm not at goal yet. I still have about 24 pounds to get to my first goal. I want to get to 174 as my weight to maintain while I wait to get approved for plastics.

I'm not at goal yet. I still have about 24 pounds to get to my first goal. I want to get to 174 as my weight to maintain while I wait to get approved for plastics.

What plastics do you want?

What plastics do you want?

The full overhaul. Arms, breasts, tummy and thighs. Insurance will cover most as part of reconstructive surgery. I don't want anything super crazy that will interfere with my workouts though. Once I maintain at 174-ish, I know I will go down into the 160's after plastics. We shall see.

The full overhaul. Arms' date=' breasts, tummy and thighs. Insurance will cover most as part of reconstructive surgery. I don't want anything super crazy that will interfere with my workouts though. Once I maintain at 174-ish, I know I will go down into the 160's after plastics. We shall see.[/quote']

My nut said that plastics was not Covered under my blue cross blue shield insurance.

Ugh dating.... Lol I'm only two weeks out from the surgery... But dating hasn't ever been easy or hard... Easy to get dates' date=' problem is (and I don't mean all men are like this) men seem to like dating more than one person at a time. I just refuse to deal with it and I walk.... I've never been one to deal with lying or cheating because I'm better than that. I'd rather be alone.

We shall see how this stuff goes after the losing process.... Who knows.[/quote']

Welcome, I agree most man want to date more than one woman. And I wouldn't stand for that either. And you are not alone you have your sleeve family to support you:) Good Luck!

My nut said that plastics was not Covered under my blue cross blue shield insurance.

My insurance covers it under certain criteria which this far I would be covered.